Confessions on Yik Yak | Waiting until marriage isn’t about the sex. It’s about commitment to the future spouse because you respect that deeply. It’s about being disciplined in your walk and saving yourself for them. Whether the sex is good or not is not the priority 1/2

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Waiting until marriage isn’t about the sex. It’s about commitment to the future spouse because you respect that deeply. It’s about being disciplined in your walk and saving yourself for them. Whether the sex is good or not is not the priority 1/2

Confessions 1d

What if you wait for marriage and it ends up being horrible

Anonymous 1d

You’re def someone who’s never known the difference between good and bad sex ngl

Anonymous 1d

2/2 if two people genuinely love each other, they’ll communicate, work around the issues, and find ways to please each other

Anonymous 1d

Depends on the spouse cause me and my fiance have slept with other people previously and neither of us gaf

Anonymous

#1 1d

Because I never had it and I see nothing wrong with that 🤷‍♂️ I’m saving myself for my future spouse because I’m committed to that person. It’s not about what I get out of it. It’s about actually loving that person.

Anonymous

#2 1d

Well I’m looking for someone who matches my values so not gaf isn’t gonna cut it for me.

Anonymous

OP 1d

Well then that’s you! Marry someone who fits what you want. Personally I didn’t want that so I didn’t get that

Anonymous

#2 1d

Obviously 👍

Anonymous

OP 1d

I know. I’m saying that it’s like being a vegetarian because you never had a good steak. You can be a vegetarian for whatever reason you want, but in the end, you don’t really know what you’re missing out on and giving up because you just won’t have a steak. And when you go to finally have one and then it turns out it’s a burger.. sure, it’s still meat, but it’s just not the same. That’s literally this entire thing.

Anonymous

#1 1d

I don’t think you understand how hardly being misaligned sexually can impact a relationship and honestly a lot of that just can’t be worked out and it’s not just about your skill level but it’s about mindset and kinks and interests and everything.

Anonymous

#1 1d

There’s always workarounds when two people love each other. Not every relationship is gonna be perfect obviously, and it’s not about the sex. I don’t get married for sex with another virgin, that’s purity rape culture. I’m saving myself because I am doing it for their sake and I hope, not expect, them to do it for mine. Again, if getting that nut in matters so much, most of us know how to masturbate at this point.