Anonymous #2 1w

I agree slightly about it be misogyny but I don’t think the person is insecure

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Anonymous OP 1w

I don’t think asking is solely insecure but asking and then being upset about the answer is shaky. Why are we asking questions for answers we don’t want to hear?

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Anonymous #2 1w

Depends what the answer is. Im a virgin, if my girl has 20 bodies im just not dating her. She clearly doesn’t value real intimacy or the idea of a relationship and I’m not going to deal with that

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Anonymous #3 1w

This is the misogyny OP and I were referring to. Just because you can’t get no hoes she must not have respect for herself for having 20. She doesn’t value intimacy because she’s had sex outside a serious relationship. She can absolutely have the potential to be someone who values a relationship and “intimacy,” especially because intimacy is more than just sex. However there’s definitely case by case scenarios you can judge an individual by.

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Anonymous #4 1w

No one is immune to insecurity, even as a girl I wouldn’t want to hear abt my partners’ partners, but no man is immune to misogyny and it’s important to identify how it seeps into everyday interactions and reactions to women.

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Anonymous #2 1w

I do get hoes, I’m not an incel. I choose to be a virgin. You guys think just because people have standards you need to accept someone without any.

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Anonymous #2 1w

If she valued intimacy, give me a genuinely good reason why she chooses to sleep around instead of getting in a loving relationship and caring about someone. There’s obviously a deeper rooted emotional issue because nobody EVER has a good reason for sleeping around. And if ur reason is because it’s fun. Again, get away from me hoe, I’ll always reject a girl with a high body count don’t care

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Anonymous #3 1w

Having casual sex because you enjoy casual sex is a perfectly good reason to have casual sex, again you’re just a misogynistic baby so having sex is something that detracts a woman’s value as a human being to you.

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Anonymous #3 1w

“I do get hoes” then why haven’t you been able to find a girl to be in a loving relationship since you are so pure and good since you’ve never had sex before.

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Anonymous #4 1w

Nope that’s a terrible reason. What is the enjoyment of casual sex. It’s deeply rooted in being unable to form real and genuine relationships. Humans are social creatures. We value connection. If someone would rather have a ton of empty meaningless sex instead of having it with a partner they care about. They have issues they refuse to acknowledge. Whoring around is a man and woman issue btw so don’t pull the misogyny bs on me

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Anonymous #2 1w

Cuz it’s for hookups, I don’t want to lose my virginity in a hookup. I’m not whore guys

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Anonymous #2 1w

I’m 19 and a shy boy, never looked as good as I did coming into college compared to high school. I’m not used to being only approached for sex and I don’t do approaching so I’m just waiting. I’m okay with being a virgin because I don’t crave meaningless sex like girls r sacks of meat. I want a loving gf

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Anonymous #3 1w

If you only cared about the meaningful connection part, you wouldn’t be calling other people whores for not being a virgin too

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Anonymous #2 1w

Missing the point of purpose for what. Obviously if u have bodies it doesn’t mean ur a whore. I’m referring to people with high body counts/seeking hookups

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Anonymous #3 1w

Why do they have to be a whore at all??? Hook up culture is not inherently evil. Having sex for fun is not evil nor does it mean they don’t care about forming a relationship. They haven’t met someone worth being in a relationship. Like you haven’t met someone worth being in a relationship with.

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Anonymous #3 1w

The whole point went over your head a few comments in. Breh try to reflect on your perspective. Your immaturity is showing lol

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Anonymous #5 1w

And misogyny, but we all know you’re like a brick wall about that subject

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Anonymous #4 1w

We need men who can actually reflect and want to do better

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Anonymous #2 1w

Okay imma hop off the evil shit, if you do choose to sleep around that’s fine, but then I choose not to date you because of it you cannot turn around and make me the bad guys for the reasons I already explained

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Anonymous #2 1w

Cuz the whole point of me not wanting to date someone with a high body count is just me holding to them the same standards I hold myself. I can’t wrap my head around how you guys scream misogyny cuz I can control myself and others can’t it makes no sense

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Anonymous #3 1w

You were saying much more than that simple statement. Lolol calling women hoes and whores lmaooo fs the statement you’re saying rn is valid , but earlier you were believing in these assumptions about other people, being 19 & a virgin, that makes sense but it doesn’t make u better than others

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Anonymous #5 1w

I always come out swinging cuz when I say I don’t want to date a girl with a high body count everyone plays defensive. Which I don’t get why. There’s nothing wrong with that if it’s the same standards I hold myself and yet people still find a problem with it somehow

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Anonymous #5 1w

They take it personally cuz they have a high body count and then get upset because they are facing the consequences of their own actions that’s how I see it every time

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Anonymous #2 1w

Also to this point, the difference between me and them is I view intimacy more importantly than they do, if I didn’t I would’ve fucked the girls who only wanted me for sex, but I didn’t. It’s not the same situation at all

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Anonymous #3 1w

It’s nothing personal, it’s literally how you’re talking about it. You’re running in your own circle here. Maybe you shouldn’t come out swinging lolol it makes u appear rlly defensive hahahaha

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Anonymous #3 1w

That’s your assumption mate, it doesn’t make it true

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Anonymous #5 1w

I have nothing to be defensive about. I’ve turned down girls who want me for sex and am waiting for the right girl. I get defensive because people find an issue with that.

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Anonymous #5 1w

I mean if they cared about intimacy they wouldn’t be hooking up like that. You turn them down unless it’s ur partner. Pretty simple concept imo

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Anonymous #3 1w

🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️

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Anonymous #3 1w

Then explain polyamory

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Anonymous #5 1w

What r u straw manning for? Polyamory had nothing to do with this. If ur polyamory that’s a completely seperate discussion. We r talking about people who aren’t polyamorous

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Anonymous #3 1w

You don’t understand the concept of intimacy. You only understand it in one form

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Anonymous #5 1w

And that makes sense at the age of 19

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Anonymous #3 1w

If ur so confident on this then explain it to me. Why would anyone choose to sleep around instead of finding a loving partner to settle down with. There’s no good reasons and everytime I ask people they never have any. Sex is fun is a terrible answer. You can fuck ur partner. And if ur only point is they haven’t found someone yet, that’s fine but then again they do not care about intimacy or view it the same way I do because if they did they wouldn’t hookup like that.

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Anonymous #5 1w

You are the one that doesn’t know what real intimacy is. Hooking up with people is not intimate. Meaningless sex is not intimate. It’s about the closeness of the relationship to the person. Forming a meaningful connection.

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Anonymous #5 1w

Intimacy is something that builds over time. Do you even know what the word actually means?

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Anonymous #3 1w

You only see intimacy as sex and sorry to break it to you but that’s rooted in misogyny. Like I don’t know how else to explain it.

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Anonymous #2 1w

WRONG

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Anonymous #3 1w

WRONG

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Anonymous #2 1w

You are so lost it’s sad. I hold people to the same standards I do, men and women. Explained why fucking people like a sack of meat is not for me and why I’ll hold girls to the same standards as well. Just explained how intimacy is everything but the sex, it’s the relationship with the person, the closeness that builds over time. And you just say it’s misogyny. So dense it’s painful 😫

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Anonymous #3 1w

I can’t you’re so dense 🤣🤣🤣

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Anonymous #5 1w

R u gonna use your words like me orrrr

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Anonymous #3 1w

Nahhh cuz I got things to do

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Anonymous #3 1w

Having fun is a good excuse for having fun because there are no consequences outside of safe sex. You are not less than or better than someone because you had sex a bunch. When you decide to form a relationship the people prior do not matter anymore.

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Anonymous #3 1w

All I gotta say is that, you can make intimacy occur in any moment of your life. You haven’t lived very much to experience that yet

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Anonymous #5 1w

Backed into a corner it’s all good. I explained myself more perfectly then I ever could’ve and you can’t find an issue with the things I explained

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Anonymous #3 1w

🗣️🗣️🗣️ hahahha

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Anonymous #5 1w

🤓🤓🤓

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Anonymous #5 1w

Nope real intimacy doesn’t happen in 2 seconds that’s called lust. That’s the entire point intimacy is something that needs to be built. Genuine connection.

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Anonymous #3 1w

Yea intimacy is shared between two people. There’s literally no difference between you wanting a relationship and someone who’s been having sex and then deciding to want to have a serious relationship

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Anonymous #2 1w

Okay that’s fine then, but when I don’t want to date a girl who sleeps around for fun I’m not the bad guy

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Anonymous #2 1w

There is difference between me and them, because we don’t view sex the same way. They view it as something to just handed out. I don’t want to be with someone like that

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Anonymous #3 1w

This is coming from the guy who calls human beings whore lmaoooo what u know about genuine connection bwhahahahah

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Anonymous #5 1w

LMAO idc bro man whore or woman whore the truth stands. Again why do it? WHY WHY? I couldn’t sleep around it makes me want to throw up. It’s gross. I want someone who thinks like that too. I couldn’t imagine kissing a girl and spending time with her knowing she’s done these things with 20 other dudes and disposed of them like trash. What kind of person does that man or woman. Fucking filthy

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Anonymous #3 1w

Hahahahaha I love when the wolf comes out of his costume

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Anonymous #3 1w

Again you double down and add the misogyny. In simple terms it’s okay to not date someone who has whatever amount of bodies cause having any is more than you. But once you start downplaying them as a person is where you lose the sense of the argument.

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Anonymous #2 1w

Well said comrade

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Anonymous #2 1w

How is that misogynistic if I hold both genders to the standard. Misogynistic would be if I hated women?

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Anonymous #2 1w

Ur also putting words in my mouth. I never downplayed anyone as a person in that last comment. I said it’s gross and filthy. Not the person the way they view sex and handle intimacy. Which stays true

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Anonymous #2 1w

Also how is it misogynistic when it’s not even related to gender. None of this discussion is gender related yet you keep talking about misogyny. Stop scapegoating with that everything I say applies to men and women

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Anonymous #3 1w

You’re saying they’re being gross and filthy😭😭😭 bro is this real????? You also make it your objective to be loud about it which may just be from personal experiences having this conversation. I’m not faulting you for wanting someone that shares the same ideal as you. But EARLIER you said there must be something wrong with them, “a deeper emotional issue.”😭😭 Also for someone who has not done it, you can not from your perspective identify if it is “fun” enough to do.

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Anonymous #3 1w

I know you’re young bro and you wouldn’t be exposed to it much. But if you do keep an open mind to learning you’ll understand misogyny appears in a lot of things.

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Anonymous #2 1w

Yea but the fun part doesn’t matter because if it is, then you fuck your partner you care about 3x time a day. There u go u had all the sex you wanted. Why does it need to be with different people. It’s the idea that nobody can explain why they would rather sleep around. It’s because there is one, they just either don’t realize it or don’t want to admit it. Because nobody does things “just because”

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Anonymous #2 1w

Explain the misogyny. I don’t view women any less than men for any reason at all. Sorry you can’t wrap ur head around the fact i have a strong opinion on how view intimacy and relationships but misogyny is missing the mark entirely

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Anonymous #3 1w

I hear you on that, however sex with your partner 3x a day is not ideal. The person you like very very much may not end up satisfying you to completion. With your ideals maybe sex doesn’t matter to you or if it does but you end up with a partner you do try stuff with and don’t like it you’ll have to find a new one and that can add up

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Anonymous #3 1w

Misogyny is not always clean cut in your face “women should stay in the kitchen.” There are nuances that were made from misogyny that are held up because they were coined against women. The entire body count conversation is rooted in the fact that men would think that women with lesser sex partners were more “pure” or just “better” because they wanted to hold their women as things that aren’t as tainted as much or at all compared to others.

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Anonymous #2 1w

In all reality if you met a woman with 20 body’s and she never told you. You and her can fall in love and experience the intimacy you’d like just as you would like it. You would never know because the people she had experiences with before you do not affect her now.

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Anonymous #2 1w

You feel the same way for both genders doesn’t rule out that the idea of it is rooted in misogyny

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