think that I don’t care about the situation enough, and that makes them mad, so then we get into a one sided argument where they’re raising their voice at me and I’m just like “Yeah, well I’m not really happy about it either 😕” and because I lack emotion they think idgaf when really if I show too much emotion they flinch (I’ve NEVER EVRER hit them btw, it’s trauma related for them) and I just feel like a big scary monster. It’s a cycle 😭😫