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I hate being like almost a foot bigger than my partner because when they make me mad they flinch when I raise my voice and it makes me feel so shitty so instead they just make me mad and I have to be super chill about it but when I’m chill they-
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Anonymous 7w

think that I don’t care about the situation enough, and that makes them mad, so then we get into a one sided argument where they’re raising their voice at me and I’m just like “Yeah, well I’m not really happy about it either 😕” and because I lack emotion they think idgaf when really if I show too much emotion they flinch (I’ve NEVER EVRER hit them btw, it’s trauma related for them) and I just feel like a big scary monster. It’s a cycle 😭😫

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Anonymous 7w

Yeah this is one of the reasons why I'm mainly attracted to tall women. I was super insecure about my height when I was younger bc I felt like some big scary monster lol, so that adds to it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

*ever 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

I know it’s not their fault to be scared but it makes me feel all mean when really I just didn’t wanna be tickled 😔

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