Confessions on Yik Yak | I need help, how do you break up with a man who’s done literally nothing wrong but you’re not actually mentally well enough to be in a relationship I thought I was when we started but I think I just actually liked the attention…and I feel so terrible but-

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I need help, how do you break up with a man who’s done literally nothing wrong but you’re not actually mentally well enough to be in a relationship I thought I was when we started but I think I just actually liked the attention…and I feel so terrible but-

Anonymous 1d

It’s not fair to him to continue being in a relationship where I don’t love him the way he loves me…I don’t even love myself so how tf am I even supposed to love him…he’s so amazing and so perfect but I don’t love him…

Anonymous 1d

just be honest and get it over with, dragging it out will only make it more painful

Anonymous 1d

as much as it sucks and it’s gonna hurt you’re just gonna have to tell him straight up. he deserves the truth and it might hurt him but at the end of the day it’s what’s best for the both of you

Anonymous 1d

U don’t. U go to therapy and get ur head on straight while ur boyfriend holds ur hand. OR u be honest with yourself (AND him— super important) about why ur really dumping him. He’s gonna see straight through that stuff about “not you it’s me/not being mentally well enough” to “I’m not feeling it”. He’ll blame himself and that’s OK bc he can choose to land on his feet and improve. But only if he understands that he’s not the right guy and has some idea of why that is. So help him understand.

Anonymous

#1 1d

I just idk how to do it That and his best friend is also my best friend and idk if that’ll effect our friendship He’s friends with one of his exes and just asked me the other day if I was ok with them hanging out so I’m hoping that’s how it ends up for us cuz he really is a good guy…I’m just not feeling it…but idk how to put it nicely

Anonymous

OP 1d

i get it, ive been in a very similar position. i will say, dont be like my ex and do it over text, this is a face to face conversation. especially if you wanna continue being friends. coming from a complete stranger i would say just go somewhere we you can talk and try to explain that you still care for him as a friend but you just don’t think the two of you fit as a couple. it’s hard and there will never be a perfect time or a perfect way to say it but it has to be done.

Anonymous

#1 1d

and don’t do the “it’s not you it’s me” that never works

Anonymous

#1 1d

I just tried to call him but he didn’t pick up fuck this is so fucking hard