While I do not speak for all men I can tell you for me it’s 1000000% because I’m oblivious

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Probably both. Oblivious to what you think he should notice but playing you like a fiddle elsewhere

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We’re just oblivious trust, reading between the lines is a next to impossible task, please just spell it out for us

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Both, lose all hope

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If you have completely declined to communicate, then yes, he is oblivious and his obliviousness is absolutely real. Ask any of 4 billion men, and they will tell you the same. Every man on earth is not capable of conspiring together to keep the same secret. It is absolutely, positively, unquestionably true in all circumstances and contexts, that men are not telepathic

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Both

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