I’ve had “nice guys” like me before but the attraction is just not there and I’d rather not lead them on just because they have feelings for me. If your friends aren’t going out with guys you deem “nice” there are probably some things you aren’t picking up on. “Nice” guys shouldn’t expect someone to reciprocate or give them a chance just because they’re “nice” because it effectively proves they aren’t genuine. We actually do love nice guys, trauma can distort how people see “nice” tho.