Having trauma is not an excuse to act badly towards others 🤠
The best people deal with their trauma in healthy ways, including owning it and dealing with it at face value. It may not your fault, but it is your problem to handle (it’s not easy).
the (it’s not easy) part should be a bit louder here ngl. no it’s not excuse but it can also be incredibly difficult to just deal with so i think people deserve some grace as well