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Confessions 12w
Men will literally go out of their way to waste your time and break your heart, especially when you didn’t even want them to begin with
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Anonymous 12w

You didn’t want them to begin with. You wasted everyone’s time

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Anonymous 12w

I “didn’t want them to being with” sounds like someone got broken up with for showing their true colors

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Anonymous 12w

Would it be disrespectful for me to ask for specifics?

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Anonymous 12w

Nah girl I’ve been in this situation before too, I wasn’t attracted to him at all at the beginning and wasn’t interested in him romantically at all. But then he started pulling all the stops-buying me gifts, listening to me vent, slow danced with me, being sweet and messaging me all the time, showering me in attention and compliments…

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Anonymous 12w

These people crying about the “didn’t want them first” part, but aren’t men always crying about how women should give them a chance? She did give him a chance and look what happened.

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Anonymous 12w

Hurt your feelings and now you “didn’t even want him to begin with” LOL

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Anonymous 12w

Very much sounds like you did this to yourself.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12w

But then they make you fall for them just to let you down, how was that point not clear lol pay attention

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Ain’t no one does this. It’s obvious from this reply here why that happened to you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 12w

It got to a point where I felt like -ya know what? He’s not too shabby I’ll give it a shot-And That’s when I got played lol. Turns out it was Love bombing and all he wanted was pussy. Even took me for a night time walk after a trip downtown with our friends, and then we had an intense makeout session. Next day he told all our friends that he doesn’t know why I think he likes me😵‍💫

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 12w

girls are conditioned to give men they aren’t attracted to chances. A lot of guys can’t fathom doing this, because they can’t even be nice/give basic respect to a girl they aren’t attracted to.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 12w

Sometimes this is true of girls too, yes. But if you don’t understand this experience your a girl/guy that falls into that category I bet

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 12w

See this is exactly what I mean to a T. I’m sorry you went through that girl 💕. Some guys just truly aren’t worth it. We’re guilt tripped for having our standards, but then when we lower them or make exceptions and still get played, it’s STILL our fault somehow like ugh.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

I feel you, I’m sorry so many are attacking you in the comments. You definitely aren’t alone in this and this is a valid experience 🥲💕

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