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Sexuality is truly interesting bc I have friends who love and will have sex with anybody and I just don’t have that desire anymore. Tried it and it just wasn’t for me. Starting to think that I’m asexual lolll
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Anonymous 1d

Same, but I KNOW that once I'm completely comfortable/safe with someone and fully trust/love them, I do enjoy sex! I just don't have any desire for hookups. And I'm not at all motivated by sex, so I don't really gaf about finding a relationship. It's just ranked super low on my driving needs/wants. If I end up finding and falling in love with someone real cool, dope, we'll smash a bunch. If not, eh oh well

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Anonymous 1d

To me having sex outside of marriage is gross so I refrain from it. I am definitely not asexual though I just don’t find any value in if you can’t commit to the person.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Exactly!! When I was a virgin I thought I didn’t desire it but everyone around me would constantly talk about how great it is. So I finally tried realized I was right this whole time and actually also don’t gaf about finding a relationship or having sex. The thought of me “hooking up” makes me cringe inside bc I know I won’t enjoy it. I’ll just have to see what happens when I genuinely fall in love with someone also

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

FELT FELT FELT!! When I was younger I forced myself to engage in a few hookups, bc EVERYONE around me was having so much fun and seemed to be so preoccupied with sex/hookups. But ts was unbearably horrible for me. I spent so long thinking there was something wrong with me/I was broken bc of how EVERYONE seems to be driven primarily by sex But nope, we're just unique. We're simply driven by other things.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

But yeah please don't do what I did and force yourself to try hookups out of FOMO. Bad bad bad bad bad bad call.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

It's funny, I'm a super sex positive person and I hate purity culture, but atp I pm personally feel the same 😭 I don't wanna have sex with anyone unless we're deeply committed. It doesn't have to be marriage, for me, but yk. So I completely understand this sentiment.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

SOOO TRUE. My self esteem definitely took a toll when I had sex with one person only TWICE. Ima consider it a hookup bc we weren’t in a relationship and omg I didn’t enjoy them and it really messed me up in my head. My friends joke around and be like “you need a man” “you need dick” all the time like sure ok and they be the same ones that are extremely sexually driven and always crave sex like can I just live? 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

I think parts of purity culture are cringe, but I overall agree with the concept of staying abstinent until marriage. I struggle with this position though because I crave intimacy bad.

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