I swear I'm not "classist". A lower social class or coming from a disadvantage is no excuse for shitty behavior, inappropriately engaging w minors , putting substances before your kids, a messy home, etc. Stop conflating bad behavior with income!!
Ngl you’re ignoring many factors that would set someone back that isn’t in their control, for example, someone who is working all the time to make a living in London( which is expensive af) could be excused couldfor having a messy home no?
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Anonymous#12w
Assuming they are living in a shared space, it is inexcusable. Why would you allow the home environment to be inhospitable for your partner and children? I'm not speaking of a little toy mess. I'm talking about urine stains from 5 years ago, torn up walls, etc.
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AnonymousOP2w
I just don’t believe in imposing our opinions on how people should live, we are in control of who our people are but we can be understanding? Lead by example?
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Anonymous#12w
Ah yes, imposing that children shouldn't live in a home with urine and poo everywhere
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AnonymousOP2w
Honestly yes, as long as the child grows up surrounded by family ,love and a certain level of care, would you vote to remove the kids from an environment like that?
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Anonymous#12w
But there is no love, the parents were drug addicts and the oldest was parents parentified take care of all their siblings and protect them from their parents