Anonymous #2 5w

Well I'll enjoy it either way lol and just because you waited however long does not mean you're permanent

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Anonymous OP 5w

The sex does not define permanence the commitment defines permanence, it is simply another form of expression to commitment to tell your spouse you waited for them

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Anonymous #2 5w

I mean sure I guess but again making a commitment is not a guarantee on permanence and just because you committed to waiting for them doesn't mean you'll enjoy it when it happens or that you're gonna last forever. You appreciate the symbolism if the sentiment but that's really all it is. In the same vein, I could say I've experienced XYZ and out of everyone, I chose you to be the last one and it's a very similar sentiment

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Anonymous OP 5w

This is true but there is a mental image of XYZ along with parts of your soul that are given to each partner, as someone who did not wait and had very many partners I know to well how I still hold parts of every woman’s soul within me, I do wish I had waited but I didn’t realize that until my number reached very high

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Anonymous #2 5w

I don't relate to this lol

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Anonymous #3 5w

This is a truth, this is why you must pick a respectable decent man to engage with and that’s likely not in Greenville and single

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Anonymous #3 5w

Well the post doesn't say you should want that

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Anonymous OP 5w

Your body count is likely not nearly as high as mine and you probably care far less for the emotional states of your previous partners

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Anonymous #2 5w

I mean those are assumptions

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Anonymous OP 5w

That is true, but my assumption is based on your words, the women I slept with I can feel their pain when I cheated on them, I could feel that break when I left them this was their soul within me for the empathy was not of me back then

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Anonymous #2 5w

I never cheated on anyone lol you're projecting, nothing you're saying about me is based on my words. Your problem isn't with sex, it's that you feel guilty because you're a serial cheater lol, so again, I don't relate to you. Your experience is not profound or poetic, you are your own problem

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Anonymous OP 5w

Don’t misread what I wrote nor state who I was as who I am, just because you have not pushed the bounds to see how real the connection is does not mean it does not exist for you, I shared my experience so you may see the connection from my view and if you desire to see that connection for yourself shatter the heart of someone your sleeping with or sleep with someone who is evil and feel your heart break for reasons you don’t understand in that moment. I do not cheat anymore and am celibate

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Anonymous #2 5w

Jesus Christ

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Anonymous OP 5w

Yea basically that’s who stopped me from my evils😂

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Anonymous #2 5w

You sound insane on the first read but the reality is you actually sound manipulative as fuck lol you're not the victim because you cheated. Be so serious

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Anonymous OP 5w

I never said I was the victim I simply said the connection is real, I believe I stated very clearly I was the abuser and felt their pain because I had no empathy.

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Anonymous #5 5w

Well that's not what the post says, is it

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Anonymous OP 5w

Man I gotta learn how to read. I support u tho

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Anonymous #2 5w

Guilt isn't soul ties lol you're confusing things

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Anonymous OP 5w

I had no guilt for I saw nothing wrong with what I was doing until several years after. Like I said I was evil and had no empathy in my heart

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Anonymous #2 5w

Bro please stop talking like this

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Anonymous OP 5w

It’s either like this or in a fashion of great vulgarity and slander take your pick since those be all I know🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous #4 5w

Yikes

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Anonymous OP 5w

This was an extremely hard read omfg

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Anonymous #10 5w

You could have to live with that whether you waited or not lol

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