Anonymous #1 6d

Considering l've never been invited to things, I don't think so Like people my age at work talked about how they hangout etc but then it hit me that they never thought to invite me and I'm new to the area. But then a few of them smoke and vape so that doesn't work anyway😂

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Anonymous #1 6d

And then there’s the people who are overly obsessed about church and being perfect and all these things that it’s made them hard to hang around. Because then it’s like well I feel judged, not welcomed, and all that so that throws them out the window.😂 So I feel like there’s nobody

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Anonymous #1 6d

And then it doesn’t help seeing social media talking about how you either are a party going drinking alcoholic etc or you go to church and do the “right things” And I don’t feel like I fit into either of those so I feel like an outsider

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Anonymous #1 6d

Sorry for the spam and yeah I might struggle in social settings 100% But at the same time I’ve never found a group I felt like I fit into so it’s hard to work on that.

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Anonymous #1 6d

Like someone said I looked bored to death at a concert because I wasn’t dancing or singing. So I’m basically “not fun” but I was having fun. I just like to watch and hear the lyrics rather than dance to them. So again feeling like I don’t belong so why even go if I’ll be judged

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Anonymous #2 6d

And like I said in the last part. I haven’t found my group so I never feel comfortable😂. I don’t drink/party and I don’t really go to church that often. I’m not into games like D&D and all these things. I don’t like dancing/singing at concerts so it’s very much Well where’s my group

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Anonymous #2 6d

Which then goes to the well if this type of group doesn’t exist then what’s even the point of living because my funeral will be just me. Yeah I’ve been a part of peoples lives but not to where I probably meant anything

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Anonymous OP 6d

Just figure out what your hobbies are and start looking into groups/people that are also into those things

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Anonymous #2 6d

Well here’s the thing. People I work with talked about fantasy football and getting a league made right? I said I enjoyed fantasy football etc but I never got invited to join the group. They knew I enjoyed it but didn’t want me to be a part of it😂 So I found something I enjoyed just to get pushed out

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Anonymous OP 6d

No one pushed you out unless you were already a part of the group and actively doing the thing with them. You mentioning you like something doesn’t automatically mean you get invited to do it. You have to build rapport with people and initiate things yourself too.

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