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am I valid for being upset w my bsf that she went to watch the Knicks game in nyc w her friends when I asked her like 3 times last week if we can go and she ignored my question, then I asked if we can watch love island tgth n she goes I’m not watching it
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Anonymous 3d

That’s not your friend boo get rid of her

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Anonymous 3d

she’s showing you in the most obvious ways possible that she does not gaf about this friendship

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Anonymous 3d

Then proceed to post on her priv story her watching love island, like if u just didn’t want to go to the Knicks w me or watch w me that’s fine but idk I feel weird idk

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Anonymous 3d

Sry but once in a generation Knicks game over degenerate island

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Anonymous 3d

I think this friendship is over or at the very least headed that way. She is blowing you off and showing you she doesn’t care for you or to spend time with you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

this is my bestfriend of years tho so idk, then literally yesterday I was having a family problem n I rlly needed her but she went im at dinner this situation doesn’t involve me

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

U read it wrong love island was Tuesday and Knicks was Wednesday

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

oooh she a bad friend myb

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

but idk if it’s just a mistake or if she didn’t wanna hangout w me like idk, we never have gotten into anything like this idk what to do it’s making me real uoset

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

i’m sure it is upsetting you! but you asked her to watch a show, she said she wasn’t watching it, and then posted that she was watching it for you to see. that’s not a mistake and is very intentional unforch

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2d

This is the first tikensomething like this has happened tho so idk if she means it fr or doesn’t realize, I also haven’t said anything but we haven’t spoke in 2 days bc I didn’t text first, I’m waiting to see if she’ll text me, mind u w live 10 mins away from eachother, idk man

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I think it time for you to slowly distance yourself and realize this friendship is no longer good for you. I think long term it’ll drain you and will probably crash and burn. I think it’s better for you to save yourself that heartbreak because friendship breakups are hard

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

Thank you, it’s really hard because that’s my bestfriend of 5 years bro, like idek, even the second game that happened she never invited me still and hasn’t texted me since the first round of Knicks

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Yeah girl sadly you just have to prepare yourself mentally for this friendship breakup. I think maybe she is your best friend but it not sounding like she’s seeing that video versa. And if she does still consider you her best friend this is not how you treat one. But 5 years is a long time so it’ll probably take a while for you to actually start distancing yourself and it’ll probably hurt. But I think separating and eventually dropping her is the best thing for you long term

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

And take what she's doing at face value, if she hasn't texted you since Tuesday and you normally text semi often I'm guessing. She is showing you how she feels about you. And is sounds like she might be doing small stuff to provoke you and you shouldn't let anybody disrupt your peace

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

Dude thank you I needed this, you should be a therapist

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