
Not to defend them, but I used to spend a TON of time stressing over talking to women, and I used to do really horribly. I’d get attached and lead on and rinse and repeat. I started having better outcomes just going for sexual relationships. They’re unfulfilling in ways sure, but at least my partners were accepting of who I was and looked like, and we both were honest about what we wanted/our boundaries. Just food for thought. A lot of men ARE pigs, but I think sometimes ppl do similar…
Just stop doing things for women you don’t want to do. I just make it clear that I’m not interested in a relationship, and I’d only want something short term and sexual. Some are going to judge, but just move on. Don’t waste time with women who don’t want what you want. I’d say the same thing inverted to women too.