I’m afraid of getting on dating apps because I feel like this is all I’ll see seems like all the good ones are already taken
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Anonymous7w
Oh god as a man this is a nightmare woman too
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Anonymous7w
It’s because you’re hot and it might also be the area that you live in. I’m in the Bible Belt and way too many men are like this. Which is wise as soon as I’m done with college I am moving away cause I’m not dealing with this bullshit.
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Anonymous7w
I hope the monogamy isn’t the issue here either
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Anonymous7w
what’s the problem here?
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Anonymous7w
Jackpot
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Anonymous#17w
The conservative and christian combo and the not knowing his dating goals. Christians are fine but not when combined with conservative. When that is paired with not wanting a meaningful relationship, it basically the last thing I would ever want
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AnonymousOP7w
im white and brown mixed and i agree with the no goals yet part but everything else is not really making sense to me
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Anonymous#17w
Christian conservatives notoriously dislike gay people, immigrants, women, universal healthcare, equal rights, etc.
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AnonymousOP7w
thank you for explaining why you don’t
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Anonymous#47w
Honestly that's what I've been finding. Most ppl on the apps are not looking for anything serious. I live in maine so its like all i see besides the occasional performative artsy type or frat boy lol
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Anonymous#57w
I think they like the cute/ nerdy looking girls because we fit their tradwife fantasy lol. I also am blonde with blue eyes 😔
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AnonymousOP7w
Oh lord, they want you for that too that’s scary
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AnonymousOP7w
That sucks, there is actually a statistics that they go after women like that to try to manipulate and control them. It’s sick, but a lot of them don’t want to break something that’s already broken. They want to do it themselves.
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Anonymous#57w
Yes and I can tell what they want from me immediately. The issue is that I have too much self respect lol
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AnonymousOP7w
Same, I have told plenty of men to fuck off, just due to their values.
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Anonymous#57w
The best part is that I am probably what they are looking for because I want kids and a traditional family, but i just don't want them lmaooo