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I hate crying in-front of my mom or relatives bc they invalidate my feelings whenever they ask me why I’m crying. They always say other people have it worse, and that at least I have a roof over my head.
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Anonymous 9w

parents love to act like they’re doing you a favor for doing the bare minimum that they’re required by law to do…..

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Anonymous 9w

Yeah, I hate myself because that’s exactly what I said when a friend of mine confided to me they are depressed. ….. we don’t talk anymore. While I do admit the blame I would like to say it’s also cause your mom is human too and has no clue what to say to make you feel better.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

I understand what makes people say things like that but I wish as a society we were more empathetic.Don’t beat yourself up too much, you know better now ❤️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Thanks! Yes as a society we really need to step up empathy and make knowledge about mental health more common. Also I hope you feel better. ❤️

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