
It’s def intention first. Like we’re all human lmao. I’m black dating a white man and he’s open minded so I can teach him things he’s not super informed on but it’s not from a place of hate or shame, it’s awesome to share culture!!!! Humans are awesome like we need more love not hate… in my opinion
This! It’s not that I hate learning the history nor the effects of current oppression systems. I just hate the division and the constant “you’re wrong for not constantly being apologetic” mentality I’ve been seeing a lot lately. I LOVE cultural appreciation. I wish more people were educated on the difference between appropriating a culture and PARTICIPATING in it respectfully
It’s like, my closest friend is Jewish. I’ve dated Jewish individuals. Do I hate nazis? Absofkinglutely. But do I hate Germans? No. I’m not gonna hate an entire region because their ancestors did a horrendous thing. Each race, region, country, etc. has pros, cons, bad apples, and terrible history but it’s all in advocating for change in CURRENT times yk?