The truth is these couples in the chance that they are real and not just some singular desperate guy, the man is too insecure to have a threesome with another man. It’s the same thing when ppl decide to open relationships. As soon as the man realizes he’s getting none, but his partner has a bunch of men that want her, he wants to close it back up. Ofc this isn’t always what’s happening but it is the most likely answer

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