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i swear, my boyfriend’s lack of urgency and lack of common sense is making me want to end things with him

Anonymous 15w

No that’s completely fair. Why keep dating him if you can’t see him as a responsible partner in the future. Keep in mind of how habits are now and just escalate the severity of them later on in life.

Anonymous 15w

No cap I had the same conversation with my man two years ago. I told him that I need to know that I’m a priority to him and to me that is shown through actions. He said I’ll work on it and he did 🫶🏼 Hope yours does the same

Anonymous

#1 15w

i’m glad that you said that, because that’s what i needed to hear. i don’t think he’s reliable/responsible at all. i don’t know why i’ve been dealing with it this entire time. thank you for your input!

Anonymous

OP 15w

im giving mine the rest of the year to change and if he doesnt, im done

Anonymous

#2 15w

I’m not trying to be a home wrecker, but just make sure you don’t regret that decision. I did this back in highschool until I found out how horribly he spoke with his mom as the final straw. Don’t let it get to the point where you’re both unhappy cause it’s just a heartache to drag it out longer. And if he loves you but doesn’t know how to show it well, it will hurt him more knowing that a year ago you had already planned in the scenario of you two breaking up.

Anonymous

OP 15w

Don’t forget the person who has to deal with the biggest consequences of your decisions is you! If you gotta split for your own sanity and happiness then you gotta.