was very emotionally abusive and sexually coercive, a lot of times we had sex i didn’t want to. i left because i realized this and she “retaliated” by sleeping w half of our coworkers at my summer job/the place i helped her get a job at and told everyone that id hit her and left to sleep w half of my college town. she got me fired for a bit (not correct way so i got my job back) and when i came back i tried to talk to her to make working together somewhat easier, and instead she js talked ab
yeah, the worst part is it’s been over a year since the breakup. i have no intention of ever letting her back into my life, but since i found out she has a 4 month old i’ve started having recurring dreams/nightmares ab her n her baby. i know how she treats children in her care, i know how she treats those that love her unconditionally, i know her pattern, and im terrified for that kid. all i can do is go into education and hope that i can provide a safe space for at least one kid like her.
dude he even lives an hour n a half away from us, she never met him she js knew ab him bc i showed her his account that i had blocked on ig while we were together 💀💀 either way that poor baby has a sketchy ahh dad and a bipolar bpd narcissist mom, i hope her moms family ends up w custody over her instead bc neither of them should have a child