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if i go on a date with a dude, and he tells me he’ll pay for it but i have to give him a little “something” in return, im getting up and leaving. yall need to start using prostitutes if that’s really what you want. it’s the same fucking thing atp.
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Anonymous 2d

I HATE when people treat relationship shit as transactional.

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Anonymous 2d

It’s like they could easily find a girl who’s down to hookup and wants casual but they only swipe right on girls who want something serious it never made sense. AND WHY IS THAT THE ONLY THING THEY CARE ABT. YOU KNOW YOU’LL GET SEX IF YOU JUST DATE AND COMMIT RIGHT?? ITLL STILL HAPPEN IN A RELATIONSHIP

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

Like this idea that men provide money and women provide sex is so dogshit. A relationship is a partnership. BOTH PEOPLE should want to do things together.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

they want a prostitute!!! and for some reason like targeting women who aren’t down for that 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

EXACTLY. WHY IS THIS HAPPENING WITH “SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP ONLY” PROFILES

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

ITS WORSE WHEN THEY MAKE YOU FEEL CRAZY FOR EVEN TELLING THEM THAT THEY’LL BE LIKE “relationship ??? Huh “ WHAT !? WHAT’S CONFUSING ARE YOU NUTS

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

they’re liars bruh 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

I really can’t put myself in the mind of a guy who wouldn’t care about his partner’s feelings or who they are as a person. Like I’m just not wired that way. A relationship for me is about the person.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

I guess maybe a lot of it is socialization???? Guys are taught that relationships are transactional and that they need to seek out sex first and foremost. But like I’m a dude too and I still don’t get how they could be DATING and not care about their partner as a person.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

AND GET THIS: this post was made in reference to a FIRST DATE

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

I had sex with someone after a first date but that’s because we went salamander hunting and then watched a movie and talked about gender stuff and vibed together really well and we aren’t dating but are still friends. Who tf goes “I paid for burger now we sex”

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