
Sometimes someone broadcasts that they’re a shitty person. If you wanted to be friends with them or date them that can feel bad. Someone refusing to date you because of your ethnicity or your sexuality hurts. But you’re better off without them. You don’t need to put up with bullshit. They wouldn’t be a good partner anyways if they’re saying bigoted things.
And you’re speaking facts of course. But this is mostly to all the girls out there trying to date shitty misogynistic dudes, or all the bi guys struggling with biphobia among straight women, or the ppl dealing with racism in the dating scene. There’s a difference between people willing to change and ones who will just hurt you.