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Y’all need enough self respect to not put up with bullshit. If a partner is misogynistic or manipulative or racist, don’t put up with that. If someone refuses to date you because you’re bi, you dodged a bullet, they don’t deserve you.
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Anonymous 2d

I’d add the word “overtly” before misogynistic and racist, but that’s because I’m the Woker and think everyone is internally at least a little misogynistic and racist when they get raised in a patriarchal and white supremacist society

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Anonymous 2d

Sometimes someone broadcasts that they’re a shitty person. If you wanted to be friends with them or date them that can feel bad. Someone refusing to date you because of your ethnicity or your sexuality hurts. But you’re better off without them. You don’t need to put up with bullshit. They wouldn’t be a good partner anyways if they’re saying bigoted things.

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Anonymous 2d

God forbid someone has a preference of sexual orientation of someone they’d like to be life long partners with

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

And you’re speaking facts of course. But this is mostly to all the girls out there trying to date shitty misogynistic dudes, or all the bi guys struggling with biphobia among straight women, or the ppl dealing with racism in the dating scene. There’s a difference between people willing to change and ones who will just hurt you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

Are you attracted to each other? Can you maintain a monogamous relationship? Cool, that’s all you need. Biphobia fucking sucks.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

And of course the mutually monogamous part is only needed for those who agree for it to be monogamous. I’m not gonna shit on my poly buds.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

Literally. Like, if you can trust a straight person not to cheat on you despite knowing that yes, there are other attractive people in the world, then you can trust a bisexual person to do the same thing.

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