
I am not telling anybody to actually go and harm their ex. I hope no one took this literally what the fuck. That is a quick way to land yourself in prison. Am I incredibly hurt and humiliated by what he did and feel vengeful? Yes, 100%. Do I advocate for murder? in theory, never in practice.
No I'm not trying to be misogynistic. I know that it is a thing that actually happens, which is why I phrased it as a question rather than a statement. Although it is definitely true that men kill women over domestic issues wayyy more than women kill men, I still think it would be pretty hypocritical for someone to be able to say they'll kill their man over cheating but not be ok with someone saying the opposite, even if they are joking (which I am)
So true. I have been cheated on myself and I don't understand how they can do that. I have been in positions where I could have easily cheated on my partner with someone far more attractive and just all around a better person, and gotten away with it, but I in no way actually wanted to cheat. It blows my mind.
THIS. For a lot of my past relationships I was with people who were of the "why would I block? thats mean!" mentality, but now I'm dating a woman who is willing to change her behavior or block people if I'm uncomfortable, and I am by far the happiest I've ever been. I know exactly how that feels to be 100% loyal to your partner and for them to still cheat, and it suuuucks.