My little sister is convinced shes going to marry her first boyfriend and when i say to her that she shouldnt plan her life around a man she says “my relationship isnt a failure like yours have been”… is it bad to say i kinda hope she gets dumped
Many ppl have married their first boyfriend (my best friend did) so it’s not an impossible thing to happen.
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Anonymous10w
No, your hopes are valid hug
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Anonymous#110w
Yeah im not saying that cant happen but im saying that she give up opportunities just because of a boy at 17
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AnonymousOP10w
It’s something she’s unfortunately gonna have to learn for herself. You can try to guide her and give her advice but at the end of the day she’s gonna have to make her own mistakes to learn and grow
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Anonymous#110w
Yeah i try 😞 then she brings up how my ex broke up with me and says its my fault, so now ive kinda given up cause its just not worth it anymore
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AnonymousOP10w
She’s def wrong for that. She will understand one day. If you haven’t already, maybe try to express that it’s hurtful when she says stuff like that when you’re just trying to look out for her