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My little sister is convinced shes going to marry her first boyfriend and when i say to her that she shouldnt plan her life around a man she says “my relationship isnt a failure like yours have been”… is it bad to say i kinda hope she gets dumped
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Anonymous 10w

Many ppl have married their first boyfriend (my best friend did) so it’s not an impossible thing to happen.

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Anonymous 10w

No, your hopes are valid hug

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Yeah im not saying that cant happen but im saying that she give up opportunities just because of a boy at 17

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

It’s something she’s unfortunately gonna have to learn for herself. You can try to guide her and give her advice but at the end of the day she’s gonna have to make her own mistakes to learn and grow

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

Yeah i try 😞 then she brings up how my ex broke up with me and says its my fault, so now ive kinda given up cause its just not worth it anymore

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

She’s def wrong for that. She will understand one day. If you haven’t already, maybe try to express that it’s hurtful when she says stuff like that when you’re just trying to look out for her

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