Anonymous #3 11w

Didn’t expect to find it and for it to be so different from what she sends me

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Anonymous OP 11w

Were you going through her phone?

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Anonymous #3 11w

my eyes only, I don’t get why she saved old stuff though

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Anonymous OP 11w

But why were you going through it in the first place? I’m not defending her having it saved, but that’s irrelevant if the only way you found out about it is by checking her phone without her permission. Trust me, dude I literally did the same thing in my previous relationship, and I literally found the same things you did. My biggest mistake was looking in the first place. My second biggest mistake was letting myself fixate on it and constantly make comparisons. It’s not worth it bro, I promise

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Anonymous OP 11w

You knew what you were doing when you looked through her phone. Unfortunately you were being invasive and hurt your own feelings. Holding peoples pasts (before they were even involved with you) against them is goofy.

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Anonymous OP 11w

Idk if this will put you to ease at all but me personally, every guy I’ve dealt with over time, as my trust has been broken, I’ve sent less risky pictures over time as a result, instead, choosing to work my up to those “dirtier” photos as the relationship progresses through stages. Idk if that’s the case for her but that’s how I am, personally. I do, however, delete the ones I sent to previous partners so I can’t speak for that.

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