Anonymous #1 20h

same, i think both are extremly harmful

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Anonymous #2 19h

i think the harm of purity culture outweighs the harm of hookup culture but i respect your perspective, i just dont think there’s much good that can come from either

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Anonymous OP 19h

Fair

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Anonymous #3 18h

have you ever researched it or are you saying that out of your personal experience?

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Anonymous OP 18h

just my opinion. would much rather date a virgin than someones who’s slept around.

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Anonymous #3 17h

THAT? THATS WHY? Not like, purity cultures thing of not having to see peoples freakness in the streets and instead in the sheets

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Anonymous #4 17h

I mean yeah that too?

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Anonymous #3 17h

Ah, yes, because having less education about the body and STIs/STDs and pregnancy is so much better than knowing these things and having multiple, consensual partners. 🤦🏻‍♀️

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Anonymous #6 17h

it’s just an opinion ☕️

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Anonymous #6 17h

When did I say anything about having less education? And yes having multiple partners is disgusting imo

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Anonymous #3 17h

And I think you thinking having multiple partners is disgusting is disgusting so now what

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Anonymous lightbluehater 17h

cool idc

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Anonymous #3 17h

So then why should I care what you think?

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Anonymous lightbluehater 17h

Where did I say you should?

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Anonymous #3 17h

The moment you shared your opinion

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Anonymous lightbluehater 17h

What? how does me sharing my opinion mean that you have to care about it?

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Anonymous #3 16h

If no one cares abt ur opinion then why share it

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Anonymous lightbluehater 16h

Because I can? And also just bc you don’t care about it doesn’t mean no one does? Are you purposefully being stupid?

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Anonymous #3 16h

I am exemplifying your logic brother

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Anonymous lightbluehater 16h

no you aren’t lmao

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Anonymous #6 15h

You lowkey made a really great point. Liberation allows for education of intercourse to be taught more often. I don’t like all aspects of purity culture. But telling individuals that they’re immature for not wanting to be in a relationship with someone whose sexual lifestyle is more frequent and intense than theirs is odd.

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Anonymous #2 10h

no, you wouldn’t. purity culture is why women in other countries are forced to stay inside unless they leave the house with a male escort. purity culture is why abortion is getting outlawed in places. purity culture is why we have less and less sex ed.

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Anonymous #7 10h

purity culture IS that awful.

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Anonymous #3 10h

HOLY SHIT, you have absolutely no idea what purity culture entails.

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Anonymous #9 10h

I just think it’s taking an awful turn🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous #9 10h

I think this is a touch overstepping, to me purity culture is valuing relationships over quick and easy sex. I agree abortion should be allowed and sex ed should be taught, but I think the hypersexual nature of today’s society and world devalues women just as much and if not more than it’s counter part.

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Anonymous #2 9h

Food for thought, would you rather be desired primarily for your body, or valued as a whole person? If it’s the second, do you think today’s hookup culture makes that more common or less common?

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Anonymous #10 9h

So then don’t let yourself be “ran through”? Nobody is stopping you.

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Anonymous #9 7h

?

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Anonymous #6 1h

i’ll tell you what Sherlock you’re not gonna believe this one

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