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Confessions 17h
since my relationship is basically over it’s just time to lock in and get hot before we break up (trust me i’m not a monster i want it to work but i have to look at the bad side sometimes)
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Anonymous 16h

Why would you not break up right now if it’s over for you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

bc we are trying to make it work and i’m dumb and scared to break up with someone ive been with for 4 years😔 but ppl keep telling me it’s not gonna work but im ignoring them

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

Okay well this is my personal opinion. Right now it seems like you have one foot out the door. You are staying with them but also “prepping” (both physically and emotionally) for a breakup. This is totally natural because you want it to hurt less, but you have to decide— are you in or out? If you are in, you need to stop thinking about an impending breakup and fully commit to making it work, even if that means it might hurt more if you do breakup. If you can’t do that, rip the bandaid off.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

oh ik i’ve been through all of the thoughts of what i need to do. we are both still kinda talking and wondering what we want to do but i completely understand

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