Anonymous #1 22h

there’s data showing a correlation with divorce, but that doesn’t prove having more sexual partners itself causes worse relationships, a lot of variables associated with sexual behavior also predict divorce

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Anonymous #2 21h

yeah i agree, you can have a preference but i was just saying my opinion, i just think it’s good to have that open communication, like my body count is 3 but i don’t care how many people my partner has been with as long as we have similar goals

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Anonymous OP 21h

Open communication?

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Anonymous #1 21h

like being upfront with what you want and what your expectations are, lots of people get into relationships without discussing their expectations and boundaries and that’s where a lot of misunderstandings and issues stem from

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Anonymous OP 21h

I don’t really want to press this or be interested but I don’t think I understand what you’re saying. What does this have to do with body count, unless you’re talking about some kind of open relationship

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Anonymous #1 21h

so #2 was talking about how someone with 150 bodies probably views sex differently than someone with 3 bodies, i’m saying that’s why open communication is so important, you have to talk to the person you’re romantically attracted to before dating so you know how they view sex and what their expectations are for the relationship, that’s more effective than just assuming their view on sex because of their body count

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Anonymous OP 21h

open communication has nothing to do with an “open” relationship, you can have open communication with your mom, a friend, literally anyone, it’s a healthy communication style

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