Anonymous #9 3w

Be strong, girl.

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Anonymous #16 3w

Did you tell the police??Omfg that’s disgusting

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Anonymous #9 3w

even better! He still lived at home and his dad was a cop. He got kicked out after I told his dad

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Anonymous #16 3w

Queen shit

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Anonymous #14 3w

U deserve better, porn addiction usually means they will be violent towards women in the future. Not worth ur safety

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WOOOO, I didn’t know until after I left him because I found out he cheated. This reply has hatred for women written all over it. Take that attitude and mindset elsewhere

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Explain it

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Not true at all

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Master rage baiter

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Some men show their true colors once they get comfortable and more in control. It can be months or years before anything bad first happens

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As if men aren’t the ones that will put on a whole act just to get a girl to date them, and show their true colors later on down the road.

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Oh you’re disgusting. Many women who are in or have been in abusive relationships, the abuse was not apparent or even there at all in the beginning. Many MEN who abuse women will lure them in by acting as the woman’s dream man, then begin abusing them later on. It’s all fun and games to not have sympathy until it’s your sister or daughter who’s the next abuse victim that you’ll be saying you don’t care about. YOU are the scum of the earth.

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With that mindset, its a miracle tbh

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Oh you’re one of those. Just a d*ck with legs. No point arguing with you, you’re wayyyy far gone

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Anonymous #16 3w

Look at how they interact with their mother, their community, animals. Like there’s glaring red flags yall just skip over them

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Anonymous #26 3w

Don’t be mad cause I can rationalize high numbers and probability

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Anonymous #23 3w

Whats the rationalization of you being a douche?

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Anonymous #26 3w

I think a lot of life’s problems can be solved if you remove ur heart from a situation and think with ur logical side, I’ve been on the other side of the coin and been with a bitch who ain’t shit but stayed with when I shouldn’t 😂 I’m just tryna put yall on some game! Everyone has a sad story

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Anonymous #23 3w

Relationships aren’t usually about logic. Emotions are a huge part of it. Most people aren’t expecting the person they like to be abusive, they aren’t automatically looking for every single thing they do wrong. Most humans trusting that most other humans aren’t terrible people. If you’re suspicious from the get-go, you won’t start any kind of positive relationship. Add that to the intentional deception and it can just be really hard to tell. Abusers rarely reveal themselves until it’s too late

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Anonymous #25 3w

You do make a good point, but still. Overall it’s a smart idea to sit down by urself sometimes, I’d say once every 3 months and look at the relationship from a logical perspective! Saves u a lot of heartache, and in some situations can save a relationship even

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Anonymous #16 3w

CP is CP no matter when its from. Id hate to be the forensic tech that had to see those

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Anonymous #23 3w

With that I can definitely agree!

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Anonymous #23 3w

Now this, I agree on. But yeah, definitely hard to take out the emotions and trustworthiness. Especially when their deception is crazy good to begin with. Now if it’s some dude just leading you on and not showing any signs of being good to you, then yeahhhh.

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Anonymous #6 3w

Exactly. Like there’s definitely some cases where the guy is a complete douche and the girl is blind, but it’s definitely more common that the really bad indicators aren’t there at first or are being intentionally hidden

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Anonymous #6 3w

I got hella Pokémon cards tbh

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Anonymous #30 3w

Actual cards? 🧑‍🦯

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Anonymous #16 3w

You reported bro for having nudes sent to him when he was 15 and she was 14 so you felt upset enough to make that a problem… that sounds stupid. That’s like revoking past consent, not only did you go through his phone without his consent you went and threw a fit because some bih was in his phone from literally years ago. Weirdo behavior on both of you and even weirder on you

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Anonymous #30 3w

Looks like someone needs to read up on CP laws 😀 Please go do your research. Whether you received it at 15 or 25 and you still have possession of it after the fact. It becomes even more criminally charged if you still possess it as an adult.

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Anonymous #22 3w

Because she look good and that booty was nice asf

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Anonymous #6 3w

Damn that’s crazy, I can’t imagine how many guys have stuff from old gfs just sitting on their phones from when they were younger

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Anonymous #30 3w

Yeah, a good amount of them do, but they have no idea that they can criminally charged and have a harsher charge once they reach the age of 18.

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condescending "honey" shut uppp

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Anonymous #6 3w

She’s still weird for that though, tf you going through his phone for just to find a reason to be mad at him? I can see why he didn’t see the problem with it because it was an old experience but given the laws and explanation maybe he would have switched up

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Anonymous #6 3w

Ofc not just booty pics lmao I’m 17 should I delete them?

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Anonymous #30 3w

If I even had an inkling of a feeling that my man still had nudes from previous girlfriends… I would ask to go through the phone, and if he says no, that’s my answer ya know.

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Anonymous #30 3w

YES!!! DELETE THEM!!!

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Anonymous #30 3w

If you received them from someone who was a minor at the time, and hypothetically, law enforcement has a warrant to search your phone, you are in possession of CP and can be criminally charged.

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Anonymous #30 3w

So yes, I would delete them.

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Anonymous #6 3w

Because who the fuck actually checks up and finds out something like that unless you have a obsession with what’s on someone else’s phone 💀. That’s legitimately weird, laws exist so you gotta do what you gotta do but going through someone phone to expose they privacy when they meant no harm is nasty

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Anonymous #6 3w

But when I turn 18 and my gf 18 if she sends me nudes and I keep them there’s no harm?

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Anonymous #30 3w

If she 18 while sending them, then yes. But if she sent anything before 18, I would delete those.

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Anonymous #30 3w

Women’s intuition is 99% correct when it comes to this. It’s honestly a weird feeling and I’ve had it happen to me and come to found out those guys were cheating. We don’t get this feeling out of thin air. Not saying it’s excuse to go through the phone, but I’ve always asked permission to go through it before doing so.

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Anonymous #6 3w

Nah women’s intuition is actually just bs, you think anything but actually just ask, most of girls be dating literal villains and just don’t know it. Low frequency of women I’ve met and seen that actually are smart so that intuition is shit ngl. Had a girl think I was cheating on her cause I didn’t kiss her for 3 days, I was just tired 😐 and then thought I was fkin my hg too like nah you really buggin

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Anonymous #30 3w

Well, in my experience, I was right, every single time. I was never accusatory but I just had that weird feeling, and then I would find out about the cheating. My ex randomly became weird about bed stuff when he cheated on me, and that was my sign that something was off. You have to allow nuance in debates, not everything is black and white. Otherwise, you will never fully get your point across or win an argument.

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Anonymous #6 3w

True, I still won’t trust most women’s intuition though, people need to prove that their smart and know what their talking about or why they feel the way they do, not just because their a woman yk

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Anonymous #30 3w

100%. I don’t like it personally when women will automatically think a man is cheating just because of past experiences or one little action that they didn’t like. There needs to be logical reasoning for why they think they are, and need to respectfully bring it up and not be accusatory about it.

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Anonymous #6 3w

Which is something don’t do, they don’t think logically or using reasoning and it’s just all emotions no questions.

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Anonymous #30 3w

nah it’s weird to keep them after breaking up

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Anonymous #30 3w

Especially at your age, 17 right?, I was one of those girls in high school that just relied on emotions, and I hated being like that. Almost all girls in high school are like that. Now that I’m 21, I really work on not letting past experiences roll over into a new relationship and make me overthink what the new guy is doing ya know.

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Anonymous #6 3w

Hopefully things get better for me

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Anonymous #30 3w

It will. Women can be very immature even at my age, but find someone who doesn’t have a lot of emotional baggage, or has worked out their problems. It saves you from a lot of the crazy stuff.

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Anonymous #30 3w

there’s something wrong with you

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Anonymous #33 3w

men suck

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Anonymous #28 3w

no that’s literally just logic, general consensus is that or at least the internet says so is that a womans beauty, presence, and aura is her greatest attribute. thats basically just sex and you turn into an object

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Anonymous #6 3w

You’re a dumbfuck then

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Anonymous #38 3w

So I’m a dumbfuck for getting manipulated by some greasy ass man that I had no idea was cheating on me until I left him? Crazy how that works. Seek therapy or something if this is all you have to say, maybe you’ll have something better to do with your life than be a douche on an anonymous post.

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Anonymous #6 3w

They’re immature at all ages fym. They don’t mature past 18 they’re just overgrown children

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Anonymous #38 3w

Deadass, I’m wondering when ts will change

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Anonymous #30 3w

It’s gonna be near impossible it sucks to say. Cause now we got modern/western females hooked on social media thinking they’re hot shit, there’s always gonna be backlash to what SHOULD be the natural hierarchy. All religions got it right, they knew females are a liability to the human race

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Anonymous #38 3w

Also, I never sent him anything. I found out about this after the fact that I dumped him for cheating. It was a very short relationship, and for good reason. I stayed in my lane, I made him hot fresh meals every day when he got off work, made sure all his clothes were cleaned, and other things were done. Still got cheated on. There’s absolutely no excuse for cheating.

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Anonymous #38 3w

fuck you

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Anonymous #38 3w

bro just weaponizing religion to express his misogyny

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Anonymous #38 3w

Legally both committed a crime. But the dude is committing a bigger crime by saving/possessing it. Especially if he’s now a grown adult with photos of a 14 year old.

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Anonymous #20 3w

Do you have any sources for that?

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Anonymous #42 3w

Life experiences literally every man I’ve met that’s had that problem has been abusive and pretty much a loser

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Anonymous #30 3w

I reported it because I brought it up to him and asked him to delete it he said NO and that he saw zero issue in those videos still being on his phone. Idc what he and that girl did when he was 15. My sole issue was that he was going on 20 and was knowingly okay with keeping CP on his phone. If im weird for reporting that, I don’t even wanna know what kinda things you’d let go unreported with your kids.

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Anonymous #30 3w

I wasn’t going through his phone to find a reason to be mad at him. We were both sitting together and he was scrolling through his camera rolls showing me pictures of him when he was a kid playing football and his Halloween costumes and whatnot and I just saw the videos and asked him about it.

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Anonymous #38 3w

i sure hope you dont date with the mindset that women dont age past 18 or id HATE to see your hard drive

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Anonymous #30 3w

you’re a goofy who raised you?

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Anonymous #46 3w

if i was you i would’ve broke his phone or atleast turned it in if he wasn’t willing to delete them

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Anonymous #45 3w

yeah, i regret that i didn’t, but i also tried to be very out of the way in high school, i didn’t like any attention so i didn’t do anything

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Anonymous #46 3w

that’s ok highschool is a highly stressful place so it’s understandable

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Anonymous #45 3w

Goofy? Bitch I never said it was right I said it’s a reality, if you tell a man that beauty, looks, presence, and aura is all he needs from a woman then it directly correlates to sex, it’s really that simple.

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Anonymous #30 3w

you literally put at the end of your sentence “ that’s basically just sec and you turn into an object” tf you mean by that because you sound real goofy

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Anonymous #45 3w

You turn into an object because that’s how they perceive you dumbass, get a grip and read

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Anonymous #30 3w

i read it i just didn’t like it feel how you want i stand on what i said

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Anonymous #45 3w

“I stand on what I said” you said a whole lot of nothing to disprove or prove my point, you got emotional and started whining like women usually do. Facts don’t lie you can stand all u want all day but your feet are gonna start hurting.

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Anonymous #30 3w

Hit a collective nerve lol

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Anonymous #28 3w

And keep all the nudes

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Anonymous #48 3w

You both are collectively stupid

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Anonymous #48 3w

you didn’t hit any nerve i responded how i did i really don’t care for anything else you gots to say

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Anonymous #45 3w

Honestly even though the not deleting it is bad I woulda been way more upset about how he was parading it and like glorifying it. That’s like celebrating the death of a human almost. That’s just so sickening to me beyond the nudes. Like a human being died and it’s some fun game game to him

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Anonymous #41 3w

it isn’t right at all it’s disrespectful to the person who had past away but there isn’t much you can do about it right now, all you can do is just believe that person is in a better place and is at peace can’t look back at the past gotta focus on the present and future

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Anonymous #38 3w

Yah the guy is def at fault for keeping that shit into adulthood lmfao. Idk how u could shift any blame to the girl

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Anonymous #45 3w

Yah 100% but that attitude towards human life is definitely manifesting itself in other fucked up ways in his life. That dude is 100% mentally ill

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Anonymous #41 3w

just gotta hope for the best that they get/seek help to better themselves but we can’t control how others act/say/do or anything else that happens

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Anonymous #45 3w

said a whole lot of nothing, keep that mouth shut like you should

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Anonymous #30 3w

girl bye😂

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Anonymous #38 3w

Jesus also said to gouge out your eyes if you are lustful. So should the men who have the nudes gouge out their eyes?

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Anonymous #38 3w

I don’t believe so, but I believe you are twisting religion to prove a point. That is not what Christianity is for. It is for loving thy neighbor, and demonizing women as a whole goes against the core of Christianity

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Anonymous #43 3w

Yah u don’t know ball. When’s the last time u went to church

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Anonymous #41 3w

Today. But I’m not trying to start an argument. I think we should just try to remember we are all gods children and we should love each other as such

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