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Being single is peaceful, don’t get me wrong. But I just feel lonely. A lot of my friends have partners so when it’s the weekend or a prime time to hang out they’re with their partners and I end up alone. It makes me feel like a loser.
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Anonymous 6d

I like being single, honestly. Men are crazy. They expect too much. I don’t like dates, outings, walking, loud noises, crowds, or conversations. Too much. I like my home. Plus, many people today don’t take sexual health seriously. Not dying with no disease a man gave me simply because he didn’t want to get tested.

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Anonymous 6d

No fr

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Anonymous 6d

I feel that

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Anonymous 6d

I’m the same way. I’ve always been the odd one out

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Anonymous 6d

this !!!!

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Anonymous 6d

:( your friends should still make time for you

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Anonymous 6d

Real

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6d

Do you expect a man to sit in silence for an hour with you? Because it sounds like that’s all you want to do with someone

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6d

That’s why I’m single. I enjoy being single. Because I don’t like that stuff. I remain single. Let’s use our brains here.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6d

This doesn’t sound outrageous. Just tell a man that you prefer to stay in. If you found someone that also liked that, you could both just stay in together.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

Though I will say this does sound kind of hard to find since the men that also don’t like to go out.. well they’re not gonna be leaving the house so it’d be hard to find them

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

maybe she doesn’t want a man since she’s said like five times she likes being single 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

That’s why I like being single because men don’t want to be in the house unless they’re getting some. I’m not doing that at all. And some men feel like if you’re always in the house, you’re cheating. I do not have the time for that

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Anonymous 6d

Facts

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6d

So you literally don’t like talking to them, you don’t ever want conversations? To talk at all?

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 6d

Small talk is fine, but I just like the silence. Reading books and listening to the TV news station. I like my space. If I find a man, I want a 3-bedroom house. I have my own bedroom; he has his own. Simple, no complications. It’s hard to find a man like that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6d

Yeah it is, good luck to you

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 6d

I don’t see why my preference is an issue. Like there are people who are married and are swingers. Hell, there are people who like being tied up; there are people who like being humiliated in public. Like mine is very much sane compared to all that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6d

Didn’t say it was an issue, just MOST people like going out and having conversations and spending quality time, the crowds and loud places and noises thing is completely normal though. So is the sexual health

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 6d

Keyword most, so that means not all. What we can do outside, we can do inside. I can order some menus, set up a table, boom, a dinner date. Enjoy your food and listen to the radio.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6d

Thats also cool, but they’re most likely not gonna want to do that everyday, not saying that you would want to do that everyday, I hear you though

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 5d

I mean that works too, nothing wrong with that either 🤷

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