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Is it true that people will avoid someone who seems to be high maintenance?

Anonymous 10w

Yeah usually. If a girl is high maintenance she has to be really worth it and most high maintenance girls aren’t worth it

Anonymous 10w

i wouldnt date someone super expensive bc i grew up financially insecure and still have that mindset even if i had that security as a child, i don’t think i would enjoy spending time with someone too high maintenance bc they might be superficial and hard to relate to

Anonymous 10w

Yes because I’ve been in relationships like that before and it was a literal hell, not gonna do it again

Anonymous 10w

Mhm.

Anonymous

#2 10w

Not that they not worth it u probably can’t afford it or it wouldn’t matter…,

Anonymous

#3 10w

Depends on how high maintenance but I can definitely afford a lot of them it’s just that most of them are not worth it. And it definitely does matter just on principle alone.

Anonymous

#2 10w

If they not worth it then you don’t like them enough or you don’t have enough money to keep up it’s simple and it’s okay to not be able to afford it they high maintenance for a reason cs if I really like someone I’ll get them whatever

Anonymous

#3 10w

The first part you said “you don’t like them enough,” is the correct answer for me usually. Like I said before it’s a matter of principle too. Just because you can get them whatever and afford whatever doesn’t mean you should whether you like them or not. For example, I got my ex Cartier and a Tesla, she wanted to go to Dubai and I could afford it but I didn’t.

Anonymous

#5 10w

What if they’re not actually high maintenance but somehow give off the impression or appearance that they are high maintenance?

Anonymous

OP 10w

Well without knowing them that’s all I can go off of but usually it has to be pretty apparent before I use that as an instant no