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Confessions 9w
no it’s not lol, love yourself more. they left you because they DONT love you. don’t give yourself false hope and hold on to people who want nothing to do with you. move on fine someone new to love
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Confessions 9w
Something I wish someone told me a while ago is that it’s ok to love someone who left you.
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Anonymous 9w

I dont think they meant forever lol. I mean obviously it’s ok to love someone and move on, nobody has to “hold on to false hope”. Just because you love someone it doesn’t mean you have to forget about how much you cared!!!

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Anonymous 9w

I still loved my ex of 5yrs when I left him. Fell out of romantic love but he’s still one of my best friends and even if we didn’t work out I wanted nothing but the best for him. We still text almost daily.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

Plus not everyone leaves bc they want nothing to do with you haha, there’s different meanings to someone leaving

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

Why should u remember how much u cared about someone who left u

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

if they left, relationship is over. no need to reminisce on it. if both ppl want to make it work they will no matter what

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

It’s ok to have a heart lol, and it doesn’t always have to be a relationship in that sense

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

I feel like I especially relate to this, my best friend of 10 years left bc she had to move out of the country. We ended up drifting apart bc of how different life got, that doesn’t mean you just stop caring about them lol. That’s just heartless

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

I’ll always love her she was my best friend. But sometimes you can’t control how you love someone and how life changes

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

that is not the context i was talking about obviously wdym

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

And how do u think he feels…

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

like it’s funny that you’re saying that U left. How does HE feel being left and then being friendzoned by u…. U think he’s good with that just cause that’s what he tells u!?? Or r u lowkey just breaking his heart again because u can’t let go of him being ur friend

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

Bro wants to be right so badly lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Maybe it’s hard for you to grasp cause you’ve been deeply hurt before but people CAN be friends with their exes lol He has had every chance to distance himself from me for several years, we don’t even live in the same state. If he’s hurting he’s doing it to himself and subjecting himself to pain but considering the conversations we have about new people each of us might be interested in I think he’s doing just fine.

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