Confessions on Yik Yak | The fact she gave herself to strangers so easily and is having sex with another man and I never got to have sex with her even once makes me want to punch a wall repeatedly until I break my hand Is that normal

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Confessions 1d

The fact she gave herself to strangers so easily and is having sex with another man and I never got to have sex with her even once makes me want to punch a wall repeatedly until I break my hand Is that normal

Anonymous 1d

Seems that, in your eyes, your self-worth is evaluated based on how sexually desirable you are toward a person who you had some type of romantic or sexual connection with. It’s fairly common to feel that way, especially if that same critique for your worth fell through much more successfully for a guy you hardly know. Just know that jealousy burns hot and fast, and instead of dwelling on those flames, you should find a way to cool yourself down in a healthier manner

Anonymous 1d

I mean to be fair that happened with my ex. She hooked up with the first guy after me after a few days and I was like the f haha

Anonymous 19h

im sorry :(

Anonymous 1d

No. You should seek therapy. She has just as much autonomy to have sex with whomever she wants as you do. Your rage is concerning.

Anonymous

#3 1d

I wonder. Do you see her as a person or as a commodity you want to possess?

Anonymous

#3 1d

No I saw her as a person. she only slept with guys who saw her as a commodity to possess unfortunately, something I tried to explain to her.

Anonymous

OP 1d

Why explain to her? I think it did a reverse psychology and made her think you’re the same as the other guy, just not as attractive

Anonymous

#2 21h

First of all I’m not that unattractive

Anonymous

OP 21h

Your personal attractive level (which is super arbitrary btw and completely unique to every single person’s perception) doesn’t matter if she isn’t attracted to you. You can’t make someone feel someone feel something for you and I’m sorry it hurts but the way you think you should be able to “talk her into” wanting you says you don’t actually think of her as a person the way you think you do.

Anonymous

#3 20h

Then fuck her for sleeping with strangers and not even considering me when I was the clear choice that’s the dumbest thing ever

Anonymous

OP 20h

Dude, your personal pride for being “the better option” is holding you back on realizing she ain’t shit and not the one for you

Anonymous

#2 20h

No I already realized that. I have essentially a date locked in with someone who’s an actually green flag, but the problem is for some reason I still find myself insanely attracted to her and essentially obsessed with her

Anonymous

#3 20h

So the D1 football player that came to her apartment and 3am and broke in thought she was a person if I did that I’d legit be in prison he does that they fuck it’s genuinely not fair

Anonymous

#3 20h

There’s also probably 100 other scenarios like that I don’t know about

Anonymous

OP 20h

Ok I was being nice earlier but apparently that doesn’t work with you. Just from this conversation I can say you aren’t a “clear choice” you’re jealous and possessive over a person that isn’t yours. She fucked strangers who couldn’t hurt her because they weren’t in her life and their opinions didn’t matter. You obviously are in her life and I can’t say whether your opinion matters to her but I can say that I don’t blame her for not choosing you.

Anonymous

#3 20h

So you’re saying if I wasn’t in her life that probably would’ve been better for me

Anonymous

OP 19h

Might be better for you if you weren’t. Go find someone who wants you to be obsessed with them. I’d still suggest getting some therapy for the rage and to learn some coping mechanisms.