A lot of my family think I make more money than I actually do so when I lend items to them like accessories they tend to keep them. I’ll jokingly ask for them back and they’ll laugh and say it’s there’s now and then never mention it again…
stand up for yourself and straight up ask for it back. jokingly asking makes them think you’re cool with them still having it. just be like hey can i have my thing back i need for a project or whatever