Anonymous #1 13h

im tired of men making everything horny. men who arent motivated by sex are simply more interesting people & are fun to be around. if men had lower libidos & werent so sexual, they wouldnt be talking to me just for the end goal of sex. they would get to know me for me. every bonding moment wouldnt be tinged with the expectation of sex. i would be able to make male friends without them secretly waiting to shoot their shot. im just tired

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Anonymous #3 13h

thank you for understanding. its genuinely exhausting

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Anonymous OP 13h

I would want to get to know you first before I do anything sexual unless you want that

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Anonymous #4 13h

...why?

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Anonymous #1 13h

you can’t even commit to saying you want to just get to know her. even NOW when you’re trying to show you’re not interested in sex you have to add a disclaimer. you’re the exact reason she made this post

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Anonymous OP 13h

Where did you get that pic of me?

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Anonymous #3 13h

Maybe I worded it bad but I’m never gonna ask/do anything sexual. My end goal isn’t sex it’s getting to know people

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Anonymous #3 13h

I’m confused what am I saying/implying that’s bad. Genuinely

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Anonymous #5 13h

dont get me started on that shitt mann. you could have had a rough day, feeling tired, sick, just had an argument, or just not in the mood but they still feel entitled to use your body. if you refuse, for any reason... the average man will nag, pressure, debate you into it, they hold it against you, and build resentment. whenever im in a relationship, my body doesnt feel like my own. it often feels like i have to give sex in order to manage the relationship, and continue receiving love

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Anonymous OP 13h

GURL DONT TURN ON UR DMS !!!!

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Anonymous #5 13h

key word **average man, because the average guy is sex obsessed, doesnt understand women, and isnt emotionally intelligent. im sure there could be a very small minority of men who arent like this

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Anonymous #5 13h

LMFAO they're staying off girl trust

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Anonymous OP 13h

Heavy on that “when I’m in a relationship my body doesn’t feel like my own” I’m so sorry u can relate

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Anonymous OP 13h

The tiniest tiniest lil minority, you would have to be favored by every god to see sum like that

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Anonymous OP 13h

YOU LET ME DM BUT DIDNT ASNWER

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Anonymous #5 13h

IM FUNNY I PROMISE

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Anonymous #5 13h

She literally ignored me the second I dmed and acted normal instead of wanting something sexual 🙄🙄🙄🙄✋✋✋✋✋

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Anonymous #5 13h

not to be pessimistic but im genuinely coming to terms with the fact that relationships probably arent for me. the orgasm gap, the domestic labor gap, the emotional intelligence gap, gender roles.... the odds are literally stacked against us. theres a quote i read that goes something like "the institution of marriage guaranteed that every man, rich or poor, would have a servant for the rest of his life"

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Anonymous #4 13h

you can literally just leave a comment. i dont want to dm

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Anonymous OP 13h

Thus why the patriarchy (Ou scary word don’t run away pls🥲) created marriage, to tie a woman to a man, then us women created fairytales and romance to cope

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Anonymous OP 13h

I feel like plenty of men aren’t like that

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Anonymous #5 13h

clock it, & dont forget the fact that nearly every single religion conveniently places men as the leaders & creators, while women are lesser with fewer rights. i might be getting too woke.... but just think of the psychological damage it may have caused, compounded for centuries, for women to never see themselves in the god they worship. having a male god be supreme. be told over and over how they're unfit to lead & even speak... internalized misogyny, patriarchy, & religion go hand in hand

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Anonymous #2 13h

finding a feminist man, who goes to therapy, asexual/ with low libido, emotionally intelligent, understands women.. really? are you really trying to tell me theres PLENTY of men like that ? LMFAO be serious

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Anonymous OP 13h

You turned them on btw

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Anonymous OP 13h

MEANWHILE WE ARE THE ONES WITH THE PORTAL INSIDE OUR BODIES TO BRING FORTH LIFE!!!!! WE ATE THE GODDESSES (ok now we getting too woke💀)

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Anonymous #5 13h

*are not ate lmao

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Anonymous #4 13h

dude every comment i make it keeps resetting the off button 😭 ugh thanks for the heads up

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Anonymous OP 13h

No it’s not

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Anonymous #5 13h

i see the vision trust lmao. ur my twin fr

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Anonymous #4 13h

k

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Anonymous OP 13h

I’m finally not alone

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Anonymous #1 11h

I think it's the "unless you want that" part

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Anonymous #7 11h

It’s the “before I do anything sexual” bc he’s implying he already was pursuing with sex in mind

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Anonymous #7 11h

Oh oops

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