Anonymous #1 7w

im tired of men making everything horny. men who arent motivated by sex are simply more interesting people & are fun to be around. if men had lower libidos & werent so sexual, they wouldnt be talking to me just for the end goal of sex. they would get to know me for me. every bonding moment wouldnt be tinged with the expectation of sex. i would be able to make male friends without them secretly waiting to shoot their shot. im just tired

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Anonymous #3 7w

thank you for understanding. its genuinely exhausting

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Anonymous OP 7w

I would want to get to know you first before I do anything sexual unless you want that

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Anonymous #4 7w

...why?

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Anonymous #1 7w

you can’t even commit to saying you want to just get to know her. even NOW when you’re trying to show you’re not interested in sex you have to add a disclaimer. you’re the exact reason she made this post

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Anonymous OP 7w

Where did you get that pic of me?

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Anonymous #3 7w

Maybe I worded it bad but I’m never gonna ask/do anything sexual. My end goal isn’t sex it’s getting to know people

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Anonymous #3 7w

I’m confused what am I saying/implying that’s bad. Genuinely

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Anonymous #5 7w

dont get me started on that shitt mann. you could have had a rough day, feeling tired, sick, just had an argument, or just not in the mood but they still feel entitled to use your body. if you refuse, for any reason... the average man will nag, pressure, debate you into it, they hold it against you, and build resentment. whenever im in a relationship, my body doesnt feel like my own. it often feels like i have to give sex in order to manage the relationship, and continue receiving love

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Anonymous OP 7w

GURL DONT TURN ON UR DMS !!!!

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Anonymous #5 7w

key word **average man, because the average guy is sex obsessed, doesnt understand women, and isnt emotionally intelligent. im sure there could be a very small minority of men who arent like this

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Anonymous #5 7w

LMFAO they're staying off girl trust

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Anonymous OP 7w

Heavy on that “when I’m in a relationship my body doesn’t feel like my own” I’m so sorry u can relate

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Anonymous OP 7w

The tiniest tiniest lil minority, you would have to be favored by every god to see sum like that

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Anonymous OP 7w

YOU LET ME DM BUT DIDNT ASNWER

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Anonymous #5 7w

IM FUNNY I PROMISE

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Anonymous #5 7w

She literally ignored me the second I dmed and acted normal instead of wanting something sexual 🙄🙄🙄🙄✋✋✋✋✋

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Anonymous #5 7w

not to be pessimistic but im genuinely coming to terms with the fact that relationships probably arent for me. the orgasm gap, the domestic labor gap, the emotional intelligence gap, gender roles.... the odds are literally stacked against us. theres a quote i read that goes something like "the institution of marriage guaranteed that every man, rich or poor, would have a servant for the rest of his life"

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Anonymous #4 7w

you can literally just leave a comment. i dont want to dm

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Anonymous OP 7w

Thus why the patriarchy (Ou scary word don’t run away pls🥲) created marriage, to tie a woman to a man, then us women created fairytales and romance to cope

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Anonymous OP 7w

I feel like plenty of men aren’t like that

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Anonymous #5 7w

clock it, & dont forget the fact that nearly every single religion conveniently places men as the leaders & creators, while women are lesser with fewer rights. i might be getting too woke.... but just think of the psychological damage it may have caused, compounded for centuries, for women to never see themselves in the god they worship. having a male god be supreme. be told over and over how they're unfit to lead & even speak... internalized misogyny, patriarchy, & religion go hand in hand

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Anonymous #2 7w

finding a feminist man, who goes to therapy, asexual/ with low libido, emotionally intelligent, understands women.. really? are you really trying to tell me theres PLENTY of men like that ? LMFAO be serious

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Anonymous OP 7w

You turned them on btw

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Anonymous OP 7w

MEANWHILE WE ARE THE ONES WITH THE PORTAL INSIDE OUR BODIES TO BRING FORTH LIFE!!!!! WE ATE THE GODDESSES (ok now we getting too woke💀)

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Anonymous #5 7w

*are not ate lmao

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Anonymous #4 7w

dude every comment i make it keeps resetting the off button 😭 ugh thanks for the heads up

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Anonymous OP 7w

No it’s not

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Anonymous #5 7w

i see the vision trust lmao. ur my twin fr

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Anonymous #4 7w

k

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Anonymous OP 7w

I’m finally not alone

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Anonymous #1 7w

I think it's the "unless you want that" part

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Anonymous #7 7w

It’s the “before I do anything sexual” bc he’s implying he already was pursuing with sex in mind

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Anonymous #7 7w

Oh oops

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Anonymous OP 7w

Who wants a servant wtf, think before you just assume. We want 5050 and wtf did I even just read 😭

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Anonymous #9 7w

in heterosexual relationships, the division in household labor, childcare, and domestic work tends to fall on the shoulders on women. even if the men claim they want 50/50, statistically, the overwhelming majority women are still doing most of the housework (source) https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/jftr.70000

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Anonymous #9 7w

another source

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Anonymous #9 7w

Boi gts or sum

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Anonymous #2 7w

Thank u sm😂like I just hate the sexism like fuck us fr jit

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Anonymous #9 7w

u calling valid & respectful criticism sexism?? proves my point even more. having emotional intelligence wouldve prevented u from disregarding everything we said. having emotional intelligence wouldve allowed u to improve urself based on our criticism. the reality is, that u arent a woman. u wouldnt know what its like to be one. & im not a man, so idk what its like either. therefore i would never minimize ur experiences.. maybe one day ull do the same. treat others how u wish to be treated

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Anonymous OP 7w

Both sexes have issues, it’s human flaw.🤷‍♀️what I read is all man hate, but women have criticisms too😂 I say sexist because I know most of the men near me respect women because we would fuck someone up for disrespect. I fucking hate that I even feel the need to comment this 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous #9 7w

yes, everyone is flawed. but i am a woman and this post is talking about my personal experiences with men. if u want to talk about women, go for it idc. u can make ur own post to talk about ur experiences nothing i said was hateful. everything i said cant be backed up and proven by studies & hundreds of other women echoing the same shared experiences. we're allowed to do that without u crying sexism

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Anonymous OP 7w

Your post isn’t racist, the comments are ag

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Anonymous #9 7w

im going to assume you meant sexist and not racist lol. people are allowed to criticize men without it being sexist. nobody was speaking about men being lesser, nobody was hating on men. we were just expressing how frustrating and unfulfilling it is that men and women tend to have fundamentally different ways of approaching relationships. theres bigger issues out there to focus on bro

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Anonymous OP 7w

I’m good G, I for sure ain’t trippin bc I got my boo and I protect that and cook and clean 😂

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Anonymous #9 7w

ur not trippin... but also spent half an hour crying sexism and saying we're being hateful... when nobody said anything even slightly mean.. sure bud

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Anonymous OP 7w

U care 2 much im lit over it 🙄i hate men hate js bc we men. That point is literally sexist asf because I could say the same for women, but I am respectful and act like every women ain’t the same

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Anonymous #9 7w

notice how nobody said they hate men, not even once, anywhere in this comment section😭 if all women have extremely similar experiences with all the men they've been with.. does that mean nothing? is it just a silly coincidence that somehow EVERY woman has experienced for CENTURIES? 😭😭😭 like are we not allowed to talk about it? huh

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Anonymous OP 7w

No one should be allowed to say a whole sex is bad just because of past shit. It’s like sex, nationality, gender, like I don’t fuck with any of that bs. Get that fuck out of here

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Anonymous #9 7w

lol but if u noticed, nobody said a whole sex was bad. we were talking about our experiences, we gave statistics, so we were talking about the AVERAGE man. for some reason u decided to take that personally😭 you: "hmmm... all the women here are in resounding agreement about being hurt by men acting a certain way... oh well! means nothing. they all are sexist & hate men. even tho im attracted to women, im going to actively ignore women's advice that will make me a better partner"

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Anonymous OP 7w

Cool G

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