Anonymous #1 6d

Funny if the context is after they were having sex in bed laying beside each-other

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Anonymous #3 6d

In what way is that funny

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Anonymous #1 6d

Because they’re asking about the wrong part of whether or not it’s cheating

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Anonymous #2 6d

Hilarious

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Anonymous #1 6d

It’s funny/ irony if that’s the context as in like it’s clearly cheating you just fucked but you’re worried that holding hands is crossing the line after that. ( the actual act of cheating is shitty and shouldn’t be done)

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Anonymous #1 6d

It’s not funny haha, it’s funny in the ironic way

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Anonymous #2 6d

Ok

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Anonymous #3 6d

No not at all the context is that basically I was at a bar and met this guy and we where just talking and this old guy starts harassing me so the guy grabs my hand and pretends we’re together to get the old man to leave me alone.

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Anonymous OP 6d

I did hold his hand after the old guy left tho so I think that’s the issue

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Anonymous OP 6d

Okay, where was your bf during all of this?

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Anonymous #2 6d

Not in the country I was on travel

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Anonymous OP 6d

For how long?

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Anonymous #2 6d

How long was i in the country? Or how long did I hold his hand

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Anonymous OP 6d

The second one

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Anonymous #2 6d

Like an hour

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Anonymous OP 6d

Yeah I’d not be okay with that either, stretch to say cheating but definitely a line crossed if you held hands for an hour after the old guy left

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Anonymous #2 6d

Yeah I agree. I think I’m gonna tell him because honestly I wouldn’t be to happy if that happened either so I wanna be transparent I wasn’t sober but that’s not really an excuse. Won’t happen again tho

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Anonymous OP 6d

I think that’s the right call, and hopefully he understands too

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Anonymous #2 6d

I hope so! But I totally accept whatever reaction he has because it’s not okay.I just hope it’s not breakup worthy since we’ve been together for 4 years.

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Anonymous OP 6d

I think he’ll understand but might be a little peeved about it

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