No real- when I say I like whoever I find attractive either they wanna make jokes and say “so kids/animals” like I’m automatically a sicko Or they aggressively try to label me when I personally don’t care. I like what I like so if I date someone who’s the opposite, same, or transitioned etc then it is what it is. I think people are shocked because I’m not a walking queer stereotype physically.

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yeahh i dont fw labels but i find telling people i exist in one of the little boxes makes them leave me alone about it

8

frrrrr idk why other people feel entitled to come to those conclusions on somebody else’s behalf when it’s none of their business in the first place. a good friend takes you at face value and doesn’t try to pressure you into making decisions about who you are before you’re ready

7

THISSS like i why am i required to have a label and i not just fuck and love whoever i’m feelin in that moment why do i NEED a label to be valid

6

Most ppl assume I’m “obviously” a cishet, 100% gender conforming woman despite my VERY short hair and the majority of my wardrobe being unisex. Some ppl have gone as far as saying “WHEN you get pregnant/ have kids” which is not only rude/ none of their business, but it gives me sm dysphoria bc I do no fully identify with being female/ a woman. I’m still not sure if I’m nonbinary or just a somewhat gender nonconforming woman, but goddamn I’m sick of being put in this box of womanhood/ femininity

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