Anonymous #1 6w

That's just not how people work lol. This isn't high school, it's a paranoid worry

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Anonymous #4 6w

Because people like to feel good about how they look dummy

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Anonymous #4 6w

your point is carrying some heavy misogynistic undertones my friend. if you think women only dress “hot” to find a relationship and should stop dressing that way after they get into one, you need to do some self reflecting on why you view women the way you do

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Anonymous #8 6w

No, it doesn't, lol

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Anonymous OP 6w

Or maybe she’s just a whore

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Anonymous #8 6w

No, it doesn't mean that either lol. You can just say you're insecure

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Anonymous #7 6w

the main point is it’s for attention, the same way a woman could post herself looking hot on social media it’s for attention. Attention that shouldn’t be sought for while in a relationship. Genuinely what other reason would women dress hot when going out it’s not for themselves you can dress hot at home, the issue is it’s not in public where people can see you and give you that satisfaction

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Anonymous #4 6w

People sometimes just like to feel good about how they look man. You're just insecure

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Anonymous OP 6w

and if you have to dress a certain way that garners attention to feel good about how you look then that’s a problem, sorry you can’t look good without attention seeking

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Anonymous #4 6w

you seem to be uncomfortable that they are drawing your attention. not everything is about you. take a step back and figure out WHY it makes you uncomfortable instead of telling women what they should do to make you feel better about them

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Anonymous #7 6w

maybe you’re right, maybe it’s my mentality or the way I view women that’s the issue. I’m not opposed to it being my fault but i’m definitely willing to find the answer

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Anonymous #7 6w

thank you for your insight

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Anonymous #4 6w

I can appreciate your openness. I apologize for my tone in some messages, but I will never be able to sit by while people continue to tell women what they can and can’t wear based on how it makes other people feel. To me it feels the same as grown adults telling children they can’t wear tank tops cause it’s distracting.

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