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Confessions 13w
My woman starts arguments for no fucking reason and it’s pissing me off lately. Today for breakfast I accidentally dropped a piece of pancake on the floor and when I got up my hair touched the syrup and she yelled at me when my hair hit it. She yelled!
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Anonymous 13w

have you tried like communicating deliberately about it cuz yelling ain’t a proportionate reaction. if the arguments are about nothing maybe just be like “ok imma take a pause bc i feel like this isn’t productive we can come back to it later” and if it was stupid you just won’t go back to it

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Anonymous 13w

I did exactly that I paused and she got mad at me bc the syrup was dripping on the floor. But a little syrup mess is easy to clean. Now shes pissed off at me.

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Anonymous 13w

she wants to break up w u. she isn’t having fun in the relationship anymore

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

well you don’t literally physically have to pause lol like you can go clean up the syrup i mean maybe just don’t engage and like have you told her yelling isn’t a good way to communicate to you (using I centered language)?

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