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Confessions 12h
Why on every dating site it’s always fat/chubby women wanting men with big biceps. I feel like most gym guys (including me) want someone with similar goals/discipline as us. Idk I find it dumb
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Anonymous 11h

Same can be said the other way around fat dudes only wanting skinny thin girls soooo what’s your point

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Anonymous 12h

Cause they have convinced themselves that they can get any guy they want. Even the top .01% of men. They have gaslight themselves and each other of this.

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Anonymous 11h

I’m a fat ass and I’ve just accepted that I’m gonna stay single until I’m skinny cause I know I don’t deserve the kind of guys I am attracted to.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12h

I blame desperate dudes in every girls dms because they giving them such a huge ego

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

Definitely that as well. They all think they are a 10 and entitled to a 10 guy in looks, etc.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11h

Just because I call out one hypocrisy doesn’t mean others don’t exist. Yes both are hypocritical, I’m just calling out this specific one because I see it very frequently

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

I get your point but my point is also at the same level as yours. Everyone likes what they like and it’s highly possible a tone gym rat are into thick girls. And vice versa you see it as dumb and you just never know that one dude that girl is aiming for could be a couple

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Anonymous replying to -> aquaman_69 9h

Yeah that’s unfortunately how life is. Losing weight is hard at first but it’s all discipline, I believe in you that you can lose the weight

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9h

It’s possible but it’s usually unrealistic and I feel like we all should just have more realistic dating standards

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9h

I legit follow a couple where she’s on the bigger side and her man is a gym rat so it’s very possible they’ve been together for 20 years. Love is love my guy. But of course you can find your girl who is just as dedicated and hope it works out.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9h

That’s an exception, I’m very active in the gym community and in my experience people similar to me tend not to go for people on the heavier side

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