Anonymous #2 17h

in my defense nobody in history has said 'we need to talk' and meant frog

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Anonymous OP 17h

Looll I hear you, but I think yall just adopted a cool as rock looking frog 😂 this ain’t a poor choice of words no way! 😂

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Anonymous #3 14h

i had already claimed the couch and the good pan. then frog

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Anonymous #2 9h

I have attachment issues and have in the past refused to fight because he said “he wanted space” broke up then and there. I still loved and wanted him, but my brain said he’s walking away and I’m not going to fight for someone who doesn’t want to be fought for. Working on it.

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Anonymous #5 9h

that brain thing is so real. mine had us split up and the good pan packed in like 2 min

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Anonymous #4 9h

the frog is thriving. my heart rate is not

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Anonymous OP 9h

I feel you, I would’ve too. I think you gotta practice fighting for someone or at least talking shit out before going nuclear (I say as someone who’s brain has been primed for nuclear in the past), people want to be wanted and part of that is coming back after a fight and talking shit out even when you think they might walk away in the end. Cutting off your emotions feels safe (that’s my natural mode) but that doesn’t make people feel cared for. Let them see the vulnerability and if they walk away

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Anonymous #5 9h

At least you can say you tried.

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Anonymous #5 9h

I still have the knee jerk reaction but I’m working on not following through when someone feels like they’re pulling away and showing the vulnerability with friends, so then I can do it with a partner. And maybe mention you don’t like those jokes.

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