
I also realized after marriage that he’s a sub, and no offense to any subs this is just my preference, but sub men is an ick for me. so I try to be dominant to cater to him, but when he gets all subby-I feel my body revolting. but I try to fight through it. and then people tell me to get a dom for us both but I don’t believe in open marriages. He’s great in every area, I didn’t realize how big of a deal sex was to me. I’m trying to work on it with him but somedays I feel really discouraged