Anonymous #1 2w

i’m asexual lol

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Anonymous #2 2w

i mean i usually wait until they get bored of me first so, i give them 3 days after they stop having interesting conversations and then i ghost

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Anonymous OP 2w

that's real

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Anonymous OP 2w

So you’re asexual On tinder Unseriously Looking for validation 😒

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Anonymous #1 2w

who uses tinder seriously lmao

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Anonymous #1 2w

also being in a relationship is all about validation, even if you dont consciously think about it. so...

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Anonymous #2 2w

I’m just gonna tell you now, if you think the best relationship is just with someone who validates you, you’ll fall behind other people in relationships with people who challenge them to be better and to do better

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Anonymous #1 2w

i'm not saying every person gets into a relationship to feel validated. what do you think love is? if you strip it down to a finite, simple idea, it's being able to **validate** (i.e., to make the other feel seen, understood, and accepted unconditionally) and care for one another. yes, challenging someone else might be an important aspect of a relationship but that's not the foundation for all of them, especially the ones where both parties know it's a short-term thing

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Anonymous #2 2w

and again, anecdotally, tinder isn't really used all that seriously. when you're on a a dating app that urges you to move at a fast pace and only understand superficially who a person is, of course it's going to be about validation. if you want a "real" long-term relationship, go outside and meet ppl

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Anonymous #2 2w

Women and responsibility just don’t match 😂

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Anonymous #1 2w

that doesn't make any sense to the conversation but okay. thanks for showing your true colors lmao

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Anonymous #1 2w

dawg its a confession not an endorsement

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