That’s fair but for some people it’s not that they don’t want to be clean but can’t, it’s like trying to burn yourself you know you can but can’t really get yourself to do it under normal circumstances, I’m sorry if your in an unclean space with someone but hold at least a bit of space for them
I understand what you are saying. I am pretty lenient and allow them to take their time but it gets to the point of taking up my space. Sharing a bathroom and then taking up all the space in it for their things to sit there for weeks and weeks is frustrating. In the shared spaces, leaving their personal stuff and things they have bought to not put away gets me to a certain point of frustration.
Again I understand people have difficulties in actually completing these tasks due to the disabilities and again, as someone that has ADD, I understand truly. I have tried to communicate with them about their messes but they take things very personal and end up crying… which makes me a little uncomfortable and guilty for making them feel like that when in reality it’s me forcing my concerns.