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Confessions 11w
It’s always “I want to see you” and never “my beautiful princess I’ve made dinner reservations be ready at 8” UGHH 😅 I don’t want to see you.
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Anonymous 11w

So you would rather have someone spend money on you than spend time with you?

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Anonymous 11w

Actually send this message to them, exactly how you have it written here, verbatim

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Anonymous 11w

Hm maybe because you’re not beautiful nor a princess, perhaps? 🤔 /j

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

It’s about the effort

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

No it’s about the money lmfao, these women heartless

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

I told him what’s his plans, he said he didn’t know he had to “have” a plan to see me, he was just going to “pull up”. Hmmm interesting bc I pulled out of this conversation 😝

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Nope. It’s called creating potentially romantic memories with your partner. Besides, she’s not your girl. Don’t be too pressed about it, young buck.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

The correct response

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

“I want to see you” is like saying “I wish I was with you.” Requires no work at all. Making an actual plan to spend time with your partner takes effort and shows you care. That’s what we want

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

Sometimes, simply being with them is all I need. This is just my pov ofc, and people prefer different things in a relationship which is totally okay. I don’t have a lot of money, so I like going on intimate dates that don’t require a lot of spending (picnics, going for a walk in the park, making snacks and watching a movie together at home, etc)

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

But I totally agree, they should be putting in effort at the end of the day

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Going out to dinner was just one example they gave. I’d be okay with most anything, just plan SOMETHING instead of just saying “wish I was with ya”

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

Oh yeah ofc!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

What an incel thing to say

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 11w

Me saying an objective truth doesn’t make me an incel

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11w

Also I know we’re talking about effort and it does definitely matter. No question. But if we just look at this post objectively, dinner reservations imply that it’s about spending money. It’s just how dating works. Guys paying on dates is the social norm. Most people don’t say it upfront, but for a lot of women, effort means paying. Also, saying “I don’t want to see you” sounds more like wanting the full fancy treatment, not just hanging out and spending actual quality time with that person.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

You thinking that’s an objective truth makes you an incel, or just dumb idk which is worse. there’s plenty of women out there who don’t care about the money

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 11w

No it doesn’t sorry, cope femcel

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

What makes you think all women care about is money, and that they’re heartless? I’m sorry if you had bad experiences but don’t let them jade you

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