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M23 guy here, i secretly want a bdsm kit with plenty of toys for any potential partner thats into them but I personally am not sure if I can handle it. However i do want to experiment with anal play on myself
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Take it from someone who got thrown in the deep end of bdsm with no prior experience: figure out what you like first, find your soft and hard limits, and never EVER hook up with someone who won’t talk about safe words and boundaries BEFORE you fool around 💕 and leave the situation if they don’t respect that. Bdsm can be very rewarding but communication is paramount.

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