
I think it’s important to be mindful of where you look for connections. If you’re finding the same behavior over and over again, then maybe you need to look for connections in different communities. Like, for example if you’re dating people mostly from campus, then maybe you should look for a community that’s not involved with your campus. Like, idk, go join a book club or join an exercise group or literally anything that exposes you to people you would not normally be around