
it was crazy bc I said I didn’t care that he had female friends until he was doing shady shit w his one female friend but I was NEVER allowed to have a male friend and my whereabouts and who I was with was CONSTANTLY monitored. But apparently I was controlling bc I called out his shady behavior after he kept Hu w one specific girl.
If you live a Christian life, there are boundaries. If not, this doesn’t apply to you. Having friends of the opposite sex is fine, but (as a heterosexual) spending time in private with a “friend” of the opposite sex is disrespectful to the partner and the relationship. No one alive is above temptation, and typically these relationships end up with someone catching feelings or trending toward them. It’s best to avoid environments that put you at risk for compromise. Groups are fine, 1 on 1 is not