having kids scares me so bad bc i don’t want to just be a mother and i feel like that’s all i see. whether it’s someone being miserable and overwhelmed or obsessed with their baby there’s no middle ground. i don’t want my whole identity taken away 😭
right!!! i cant let my swag and soul be taken away
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Anonymous#116h
yes!! bc even if you’re happy it’s like all that makes you happy is the baby and you’re thinking about them 24/7 and idk 😭😭 i always thought id have kids but thinking about it sounds so miserable