cheat code is to get depressed and let the main symptom of your crashout be sex. do all the freak shit for 3 months and then realize you’re in too deep, back away slowly and do 3 months of celibacy, but be at peace knowing you’re no longer afraid of doing all the freak shit if a good healthy time ever arises
honestly what you think you like and what you actually like can be VERY different. if you like the idea of something, you kinda don’t know whether you like being on the giving end of a kink or the receiving end, and you just gotta figure it out. found out I liked things i never thought i would. you honestly just have to find out (with someone you love, trust, and are comfortable with). this is more important if you know you want to explore other sexual things.
I say this because reading things is almost never accurate to the real deal and it will feel very different for you, so reading about it might seem hot but being in it is a whole different experience. This is coming from someone who read all kinds of smut and thought “wow I’m into all of this” to find out I was into most of it but some things were massively over rated or just completely different
okay hold on guys first of all I feel like I’m being misunderstood I def do not read about anything illegal or borderline 😭😭 I’m also a girl who likes girls (so I read yuri) and i didn’t rlly know how that worked cus I don’t watch corn or anything so it lowk did more good for me to read. I am also not a loser gooner who has no game and beats their meat daily girls just don’t approach me as much as guys do🥀